Alyssa

Are you married to this person? No. Engaged for five years. We've been together for eight. What's the holdup, yo? We both say, well, you know, we can do it tomorrow if we want to, but I guess neither one of us has made it a priority.

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Yeah, and that's how I felt. But hold on, Alyssa.

Yeah, and that's how I felt. But hold on, Alyssa.

Yeah, and that's how I felt. But hold on, Alyssa.

Yes.

Yes.

Yes.

When we go to – or earlier on in our relationship – When we would go to family gatherings, you know, a family member might say something a little bit sideways. And I'm not one to cause a scene. I would never do that. I feel like that doesn't achieve anything. So my reaction is to talk to him after the fact. And he has said everything in order to avoid going to that family member to talk.

When we go to – or earlier on in our relationship – When we would go to family gatherings, you know, a family member might say something a little bit sideways. And I'm not one to cause a scene. I would never do that. I feel like that doesn't achieve anything. So my reaction is to talk to him after the fact. And he has said everything in order to avoid going to that family member to talk.

When we go to – or earlier on in our relationship – When we would go to family gatherings, you know, a family member might say something a little bit sideways. And I'm not one to cause a scene. I would never do that. I feel like that doesn't achieve anything. So my reaction is to talk to him after the fact. And he has said everything in order to avoid going to that family member to talk.

Say, hey, you know, you can't talk to her that way or you can't you shouldn't say that or whatever it might be. You know, one thing that he said was I was drunk. I didn't hear it. Or the next time was or she didn't mean it that way or like it's at the expense of how I feel. That's right. It's called gaslighting. Yeah.

Say, hey, you know, you can't talk to her that way or you can't you shouldn't say that or whatever it might be. You know, one thing that he said was I was drunk. I didn't hear it. Or the next time was or she didn't mean it that way or like it's at the expense of how I feel. That's right. It's called gaslighting. Yeah.

Say, hey, you know, you can't talk to her that way or you can't you shouldn't say that or whatever it might be. You know, one thing that he said was I was drunk. I didn't hear it. Or the next time was or she didn't mean it that way or like it's at the expense of how I feel. That's right. It's called gaslighting. Yeah.

We weren't really sure what she was going to do because she had gone back and forth. Even in my phone calls with her, I never really got a straight answer with her because I think in her mind, if she didn't get the plea that she wanted, she wasn't going to take a plea.