Amala Ekpunobi

And that further influences the daughter to go no contact with the therapist.

the mother so why does therapy seems seem to be like the keystone the nexus for which like these no contact situations are often popping up and i've seen this happen in my own life with people that i know who end up going no contact and you get down to the bottom of it and it's therapy therapy therapy and does the person seem more well adjusted at the other end of it do they seem healthier do they seem happier

no no they don't and i will make it also very clear at no point did my therapist ever ever suggest going no contact and then the final straw between the two of us was when because i continued to try to have a relationship your therapist sort of subliminally suggested it when she said i can't even as a medical professional and as a psychological professional have you both in the same room to have conversation does that not insinuate that even if a medical health professional cannot

get through the two of yours problems that maybe you should step away and back away from your mother.

The therapist doesn't have to say it outright.

It's sort of said with action.

Okay, we got through that.

I mean, I cannot speak to her specific situation.

I cannot exonerate her mother of any ill intent or actions through their past, through their present.

I don't know exactly what they've dealt with.

We are gonna get to a follow-up video where she does sort of go through some of what she dealt with.

But so far,

And I say this as somebody who had a dysfunction in my family at times.

These do sound like pretty normal mother-daughter issues to be dealing with in adulthood.

I wouldn't even go as far as to say this sounds like extremely dysfunctional or anything like that.

I think we can have contact with her mother and learn to accept who she is.

She's accepting of who you are.

And the comments are overwhelmingly in the mother's favor on this video, which is very interesting because we're hearing the story from the daughter's perspective.

And some of these comments are rude.

One of the top comments says, honestly, you sound exhausting.