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Amanda Doyle

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
348 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

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We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

I love your both and strategy. I am sensitive and you are not calling me back. I am a very high strung person. And you're not pulling your weight because it's so easy to accept the invitation into this parallel argument where you're never going to have your needs met on the thing you originally brought. So it's a really nice way to be like, you're exactly right.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

I love your both and strategy. I am sensitive and you are not calling me back. I am a very high strung person. And you're not pulling your weight because it's so easy to accept the invitation into this parallel argument where you're never going to have your needs met on the thing you originally brought. So it's a really nice way to be like, you're exactly right.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

I love your both and strategy. I am sensitive and you are not calling me back. I am a very high strung person. And you're not pulling your weight because it's so easy to accept the invitation into this parallel argument where you're never going to have your needs met on the thing you originally brought. So it's a really nice way to be like, you're exactly right.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

And also, let's continue to talk about your thing.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

And also, let's continue to talk about your thing.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

And also, let's continue to talk about your thing.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

Well, it depends how far along I was. Originally, I'd be like, you're crazy. You have misconstrued that situation. That is not what it is. But a little farther in, it would be, wait, tell me what happened. Wait, who? Maybe I should go ask my friend if that's what I was doing. I think, okay, I'm so sorry I made you feel that way. And then progressing to the point where I would proactively say,

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

Well, it depends how far along I was. Originally, I'd be like, you're crazy. You have misconstrued that situation. That is not what it is. But a little farther in, it would be, wait, tell me what happened. Wait, who? Maybe I should go ask my friend if that's what I was doing. I think, okay, I'm so sorry I made you feel that way. And then progressing to the point where I would proactively say,

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

Well, it depends how far along I was. Originally, I'd be like, you're crazy. You have misconstrued that situation. That is not what it is. But a little farther in, it would be, wait, tell me what happened. Wait, who? Maybe I should go ask my friend if that's what I was doing. I think, okay, I'm so sorry I made you feel that way. And then progressing to the point where I would proactively say,

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

Get in front of it. I'm sorry for that thing that I didn't do.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

Get in front of it. I'm sorry for that thing that I didn't do.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

Get in front of it. I'm sorry for that thing that I didn't do.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

You just become smaller and smaller.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

You just become smaller and smaller.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

You just become smaller and smaller.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

I think it was that thing that you're talking about of the, a good person and good woman seeks to empathize and seeks to understand the other perspective. And I love him. So I don't want to upset him. And so this is clearly upsetting to him. So whether or not I'm intending or actually doing this thing has very little to do with whether he's upset.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

I think it was that thing that you're talking about of the, a good person and good woman seeks to empathize and seeks to understand the other perspective. And I love him. So I don't want to upset him. And so this is clearly upsetting to him. So whether or not I'm intending or actually doing this thing has very little to do with whether he's upset.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

I think it was that thing that you're talking about of the, a good person and good woman seeks to empathize and seeks to understand the other perspective. And I love him. So I don't want to upset him. And so this is clearly upsetting to him. So whether or not I'm intending or actually doing this thing has very little to do with whether he's upset.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You Being Gaslighted? with Dr. Robin Stern (Best Of)

So I just need to change my behavior so that he doesn't get upset.