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Amanda

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
9387 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

And we choose what we spend our time on. And I want to say very clearly that this is the opposite of that whole meme. Beyonce has the same 24 hours in a day as you have. No, no, she doesn't. That's completely ableist and classist and shaming and ridiculous.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

I realize that I have the resources of a professional woman who cleans my house, a professional therapist who cleans my brain, a very involved partner, a mom down the street who is there for any emergencies. I don't have the same amount of time as somebody else. else. I have more of it. And maybe passivity is kind of my kryptonite too. It's like mediocrity and passivity.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

I realize that I have the resources of a professional woman who cleans my house, a professional therapist who cleans my brain, a very involved partner, a mom down the street who is there for any emergencies. I don't have the same amount of time as somebody else. else. I have more of it. And maybe passivity is kind of my kryptonite too. It's like mediocrity and passivity.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

I realize that I have the resources of a professional woman who cleans my house, a professional therapist who cleans my brain, a very involved partner, a mom down the street who is there for any emergencies. I don't have the same amount of time as somebody else. else. I have more of it. And maybe passivity is kind of my kryptonite too. It's like mediocrity and passivity.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

I feel like not just saying I don't have time is basically suggesting that time will either arrive and give it unto you or it will not. But that's not how time works. So for me, I don't say it because it allows me to actually realign my values. Like it's either I haven't made time or I haven't prioritized that yet, or I'm going to invest the time next week in that. Or-

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

I feel like not just saying I don't have time is basically suggesting that time will either arrive and give it unto you or it will not. But that's not how time works. So for me, I don't say it because it allows me to actually realign my values. Like it's either I haven't made time or I haven't prioritized that yet, or I'm going to invest the time next week in that. Or-

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

I feel like not just saying I don't have time is basically suggesting that time will either arrive and give it unto you or it will not. But that's not how time works. So for me, I don't say it because it allows me to actually realign my values. Like it's either I haven't made time or I haven't prioritized that yet, or I'm going to invest the time next week in that. Or-

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

That's not a priority for me. It gives me the agency of it to not suggest that like, oh, there's just a dearth of time and I am expected to do all of this and I can't. It's like, no, you can do whatever within your resources as they are for any given person. Just do with your time what you place the highest and best value on. Yep. That's not to say that you should maximize every bit of time.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

That's not a priority for me. It gives me the agency of it to not suggest that like, oh, there's just a dearth of time and I am expected to do all of this and I can't. It's like, no, you can do whatever within your resources as they are for any given person. Just do with your time what you place the highest and best value on. Yep. That's not to say that you should maximize every bit of time.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

That's not a priority for me. It gives me the agency of it to not suggest that like, oh, there's just a dearth of time and I am expected to do all of this and I can't. It's like, no, you can do whatever within your resources as they are for any given person. Just do with your time what you place the highest and best value on. Yep. That's not to say that you should maximize every bit of time.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

That's the opposite of what I'm saying. I perfectly respect people who are saying, I invested a lot of time this week in my family. I'm prioritizing my kids' practices. I'm going to make time for that next week. I respect that more because you're saying, you're claiming what your time is. I just want to clarify that I'm not saying optimize and make your time most efficient.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

That's the opposite of what I'm saying. I perfectly respect people who are saying, I invested a lot of time this week in my family. I'm prioritizing my kids' practices. I'm going to make time for that next week. I respect that more because you're saying, you're claiming what your time is. I just want to clarify that I'm not saying optimize and make your time most efficient.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

That's the opposite of what I'm saying. I perfectly respect people who are saying, I invested a lot of time this week in my family. I'm prioritizing my kids' practices. I'm going to make time for that next week. I respect that more because you're saying, you're claiming what your time is. I just want to clarify that I'm not saying optimize and make your time most efficient.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

It's like actually be honest about what you're doing. And in fact, nobody has time for everything. So, but you are making time and you're investing time in other shit.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

It's like actually be honest about what you're doing. And in fact, nobody has time for everything. So, but you are making time and you're investing time in other shit.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

It's like actually be honest about what you're doing. And in fact, nobody has time for everything. So, but you are making time and you're investing time in other shit.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

I mean, I really don't like a passive aggressive CC on an email. Do you ever notice that where people think they're like telling on you or something by CCing someone on the email and you're like... Nope. Nobody. Nope. We're not doing that here. Um, yeah.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

I mean, I really don't like a passive aggressive CC on an email. Do you ever notice that where people think they're like telling on you or something by CCing someone on the email and you're like... Nope. Nobody. Nope. We're not doing that here. Um, yeah.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

I mean, I really don't like a passive aggressive CC on an email. Do you ever notice that where people think they're like telling on you or something by CCing someone on the email and you're like... Nope. Nobody. Nope. We're not doing that here. Um, yeah.

We Can Do Hard Things
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)

Oh, done those. Okay. Let's talk about the things that we do that are annoying to other people. I know I have a shit ton of things that are so annoying. I can start. I have a lot of them. Um, I, I, ask questions incessantly during TV shows and movies.