Amber Rosolero

Or is it the kind of thing where trust needs to override discomfort?

How do I navigate respecting her feelings without jeopardising my career?

Please keep me in on from a fellow gay XXX.

No, I knew it was.

This is a tricky one because it is...

I think it's valid the way if you're if you're in agreement.

And I do think it's fair enough, like putting down that boundary based on previous experience.

Oh, no, sorry.

I think that... I know that, but that's a previous experience with that person that has set up that kind of insecurity.

It's, I think both sides are valid.

And so you maybe just need to try and figure out some compromise because you can't keep on saying no if this is going to be the situation you're not planning on leaving this job you're in at the moment.

You're going to have to have a discussion and try and figure out how you keep both one another happy.

It's a bit awkward.

It's a bit awkward, though, isn't it?

But you need to kind of like if there's boundaries and stuff like that, you have to kind of set parameters like, oh, check in with me or you can.

Oh, I don't know.

Oh, it's so tricky because I can see it from both sides.

I think he could probably make an excuse for this time and then just on the basis that you guys have a conversation to try and work out how it's going to work going forward because you can't say no to it all the time.

I would try and get out of it for the first time, but then try and revisit the conversation.

Exactly what I'm saying.