Amber Rosolero

Her partner should be putting the mother in the place.

I've corrected her multiple times.

My partner has spoken to her, OK?

And nothing has changed.

The final straw came when I saw her post on her Facebook introducing her darling granddaughter, Ivy.

I lost it.

I was hormonal exhausted and honestly furious.

So when Christmas plans came up, I told my partner I didn't want her there unless she could respect our child's name.

I won't have her around my kid calling her a different name.

He backed me.

Now she's after telling everyone we banned her from Christmas and that I'm using the baby to punish her.

My own mum thinks I should just ignore her to keep the peace.

So, am I being the asshole for uninviting my mother-in-law over this?

Or is refusing to use your grandchild's actual name a fair enough boundary to draw?

Love the pod.

Reminds me of home.

I'm wishing you all a very Merry Christmas.

Anon.

rude it's obnoxious and it's ignorant and there's certain things you know are better left unsaid and I'm sorry but she should be staying in her own lane that is you can't go and dictate to people what they call their children that's just so incredibly rude and how would she feel if someone said that to her about her child when she was a young mother or whatever a mother yeah yeah I mean it's not great

No.