Amber Rosolero

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Okay, back to Anand.

To my dilemma, I'm a 34-year-old, recently single man.

I'm living in very rural Ireland where the parish is small and every neighbour is nosy and knows your business.

But it's charming.

I've been living here for five years.

My little girl is in the local school and she's thriving, which is great.

A couple of years back, I invited the mammies that I got to know in the area to my home for a Galentine's night.

We had cocktails and just had a girly night.

However, my husband, now ex, arrived home extremely drunk and decided to kick out all my friends and verbally attack them and me.

Hence why he's now an ex.

Fast forward to today.

I feel like his behavior has tarnished me forever in the area.

I don't get invited to anything.

The others are planning and I feel so left out of things.

I'm incredibly lonely.

Oh no.

I'm incredibly lonely as I'm on my own most weekends.

I'm fun to be around and really outgoing.

I love a good night out.