Amber

And so I think I just kind of became emotionally ambivalent in terms of an indifferent to what he was doing and didn't care anymore.

And so when I met this person who was our contractor, we had just bought a new house and

We were remodeling it.

We bought it in January.

So I met him once in January.

And it was an immediate, like, there's something here.

I don't know what that is.

But it was a 30-minute conversation.

And then I didn't see him again until June.

And then in June, the same thing happened all over again.

And it was a mutual thing.

Um...

It progressed when he was in our house and he was doing all the construction.

We just couldn't not be around each other.

It was like you could feel the chemistry in the air.

I mean, he's devastated.

So,

first after we had our third kid he did not want three kids i wanted more kids so we sort of compromised at three and he completely checked out so that was three years ago our kids are seven five and three and like he checked out on being a dad yeah and i mean i can go into after our first kid he left for a month to go on a surf trip two weeks after he was born so crazy i can't i can't i

Yeah, so did it again with our third.

Our second was during COVID, so I guess it wasn't an option to go anywhere.