Amber

And we need to like move on because our kids are better not in this limbo.

So we have to figure out one way or another.

I don't have a timeline.

Like I want to, I don't want to rush into anything.

So like, I don't want to rush to get divorced.

I don't want to rush to get like, I just want to like sit.

And that's what I've been asking for is like sitting with everything that's happening and not rushing.

He wants to rush for an answer one way or another.

And I just can't get him that.

And so that's sort of the source of a lot of our conflict right now is like,

Yeah, all the time.

I mean, and then his answer is that I'm mentally ill and I need help.

Yeah.

That's why you, I think there's a, we come from very different backgrounds and,

in therapy, like I'm, and I'm not trying to like pat my own back or anything.

I'm incredibly high functioning and like, I just get things done.

And like, I think a big part of the disconnect is like his version of doing things is just so low.

Like it's very, just like he, he thinks that he did.

Like, I think there, I think he genuinely thinks that time, like he did act as a partner.

And in my head, I'm like, just because you,