Amber
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And I'll just go for a quick bite.
And then he's saying, oh, I thought he was going to be back at five.
What a loaded shripe.
For them, they're common to be liked by loads of people and feel seen or whatever in their just misery and negativity.
remember choosing your top 10 friends how fucking cutthroat was that on your profile thank god that just disappeared the pictures of me from Aberdeen and Facebook remember do you remember Facebook uploading whole fucking albums of like 45 to 60 photos from one night out I know
I'm proud of myself.
I'm proud of myself for conquering...
My confidence issues somewhat.
Genuinely, putting myself out of my comfort zone.
I am very pleased I've done that because, yeah, it's a big thing for me.
My best friend always posts about everyone else's birthdays in our friend group, like multiple story posts about how much they love them.
But my birthday always gets completely forgotten.
This has happened three years in a row now.
I know it sounds silly and I do feel a bit ridiculous for noticing it and I try to shrug it off tell myself it's social media but it's not a big deal but when I see her posting for everyone else it stings it makes me feel small like maybe I'm not as important to them as I thought I was and the thing is I really value our friendship so feeling left out like this really gets me down I don't want to be petty but at the same time it's hard to ignore it every time it happens am I overreacting I'd make a joke of it
Like, what the fuck?
I would be of the opinion with this one I'd have to make a joke out of it I would have to call the person out but do it in a jokey way because maybe they're not aware of it or maybe they are aware of it but like when you make them confronted it just like why don't you post it I'd be like yeah I would what would you do Emma?
Well, it's three years it's happened.
So it's definitely niggling if it's still bugging her.