Amelia Lester

I will.

No.

So tell us some of the stuff.

I have just seen that there are reports that she did nuzzle into his neck during the dance.

I have also seen reports that the only people who have access to that video are Nicola and Brooklyn.

Definitely.

Which means they hold all the cards.

They can say anything is on that video.

So our wish is that that would be published potentially.

Like I don't know if we're going to get that.

Then I think it plays into this pre-existing narrative about boy-mum culture.

Yeah, the mother-in-law's.

The implicit, and I bristle at this, the implication that there is some sort of emotional incest going on between a mother and her like ownership over her eldest son.

I think it is so deeply misogynistic to suggest that women can't get along and that there is some fight going on between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.

But there is a fight, Jessie.

But if your son stops seeing you after he gets a girlfriend, it's on your son.

And who is subsumed into which family?

And gender dynamics absolutely play a role in that.

Like let's not pretend like people don't go, oh, there's an allegiance to the woman's family that there isn't to the man.

And we've spoken about this before.