Amy Andersen

The grass is always greener by somebody who almost is drinking that Kool-Aid by the gallon and they're loving it. And that's fine. Like that is their kind of mode and mentality that they're in. And that can be really hard because I've learned the hard way over the years where I try to reprogram that mindset going from volume to quality versus sheer volume and quantity.

The grass is always greener by somebody who almost is drinking that Kool-Aid by the gallon and they're loving it. And that's fine. Like that is their kind of mode and mentality that they're in. And that can be really hard because I've learned the hard way over the years where I try to reprogram that mindset going from volume to quality versus sheer volume and quantity.

And that's really hard, right? That type of person is probably in a better mindset to stay dating through the apps or online. And maybe once they kind of burn out from that, then they can think about working with a matchmaker. Because generally speaking, most of us matchmakers do one introduction at a time. So that can be a shocking concept for somebody who's like, wait, how?

And that's really hard, right? That type of person is probably in a better mindset to stay dating through the apps or online. And maybe once they kind of burn out from that, then they can think about working with a matchmaker. Because generally speaking, most of us matchmakers do one introduction at a time. So that can be a shocking concept for somebody who's like, wait, how?

And that's really hard, right? That type of person is probably in a better mindset to stay dating through the apps or online. And maybe once they kind of burn out from that, then they can think about working with a matchmaker. Because generally speaking, most of us matchmakers do one introduction at a time. So that can be a shocking concept for somebody who's like, wait, how?

What about 10 or 100 women? I'm like, what? I'm talking about one. I'm going to find you. And that's what we're talking about, like finding chemistry in that spark with one amazing person, right?

What about 10 or 100 women? I'm like, what? I'm talking about one. I'm going to find you. And that's what we're talking about, like finding chemistry in that spark with one amazing person, right?

What about 10 or 100 women? I'm like, what? I'm talking about one. I'm going to find you. And that's what we're talking about, like finding chemistry in that spark with one amazing person, right?

It's a novel idea.

It's a novel idea.

It's a novel idea.

Absolutely. So I think that it all interlocks and everything merges together. When you start working with a matchmaker, a lot of this is about digging deep into one's psyche, what they're looking for, all the experiences they've had. up into this point where I really encourage these men to talk about past relationships or if they haven't even had relationships, why?

Absolutely. So I think that it all interlocks and everything merges together. When you start working with a matchmaker, a lot of this is about digging deep into one's psyche, what they're looking for, all the experiences they've had. up into this point where I really encourage these men to talk about past relationships or if they haven't even had relationships, why?

Absolutely. So I think that it all interlocks and everything merges together. When you start working with a matchmaker, a lot of this is about digging deep into one's psyche, what they're looking for, all the experiences they've had. up into this point where I really encourage these men to talk about past relationships or if they haven't even had relationships, why?

Really kind of getting them to kind of uncover some of this history into their life. I find the more that they talk about this, then we're slowly starting to kind of build those building blocks towards confidence, right? that can then be parlayed into actually going out there in real life and striking up conversations with women. My whole thing is dating is a skill, right?

Really kind of getting them to kind of uncover some of this history into their life. I find the more that they talk about this, then we're slowly starting to kind of build those building blocks towards confidence, right? that can then be parlayed into actually going out there in real life and striking up conversations with women. My whole thing is dating is a skill, right?

Really kind of getting them to kind of uncover some of this history into their life. I find the more that they talk about this, then we're slowly starting to kind of build those building blocks towards confidence, right? that can then be parlayed into actually going out there in real life and striking up conversations with women. My whole thing is dating is a skill, right?

Like anything in life, you know, dating is a skill and practice makes perfect. And to remember to be patient, I think. Patience, like with this whole process, really pays off. And to remember that, like we're all kind of operating in a really fast paced dating culture where a lot of these guys, I would imagine a lot of your clients are wanting to kind of like flirt.

Like anything in life, you know, dating is a skill and practice makes perfect. And to remember to be patient, I think. Patience, like with this whole process, really pays off. And to remember that, like we're all kind of operating in a really fast paced dating culture where a lot of these guys, I would imagine a lot of your clients are wanting to kind of like flirt.

Like anything in life, you know, dating is a skill and practice makes perfect. And to remember to be patient, I think. Patience, like with this whole process, really pays off. And to remember that, like we're all kind of operating in a really fast paced dating culture where a lot of these guys, I would imagine a lot of your clients are wanting to kind of like flirt.