Amy Andersen
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find the one and sometimes they can be impatient, but kind of the more patient you are with the journey, the more confidence you're going to build as part of the process and the more skills you're going to kind of gain, right? So it all kind of begins to weave together as part of the process. And honestly, sometimes when I find my clients are least expecting it,
find the one and sometimes they can be impatient, but kind of the more patient you are with the journey, the more confidence you're going to build as part of the process and the more skills you're going to kind of gain, right? So it all kind of begins to weave together as part of the process. And honestly, sometimes when I find my clients are least expecting it,
find the one and sometimes they can be impatient, but kind of the more patient you are with the journey, the more confidence you're going to build as part of the process and the more skills you're going to kind of gain, right? So it all kind of begins to weave together as part of the process. And honestly, sometimes when I find my clients are least expecting it,
that's when they find those sparks in the chemistry because they're there in the moment and they just are themselves. And that's when kind of those sparks can happen and the conversation flows so much more organically. But that is a skill and you have to start somewhere.
that's when they find those sparks in the chemistry because they're there in the moment and they just are themselves. And that's when kind of those sparks can happen and the conversation flows so much more organically. But that is a skill and you have to start somewhere.
that's when they find those sparks in the chemistry because they're there in the moment and they just are themselves. And that's when kind of those sparks can happen and the conversation flows so much more organically. But that is a skill and you have to start somewhere.
Yeah, no, absolutely. So one of my former clients, he was fishing in a very, we'll call it very narrow pond. So this is kind of like a success story. And I would say like a story of rigidity, if you will. So he was a Stanford grad and was looking for a match who was also a Stanford grad and
Yeah, no, absolutely. So one of my former clients, he was fishing in a very, we'll call it very narrow pond. So this is kind of like a success story. And I would say like a story of rigidity, if you will. So he was a Stanford grad and was looking for a match who was also a Stanford grad and
Yeah, no, absolutely. So one of my former clients, he was fishing in a very, we'll call it very narrow pond. So this is kind of like a success story. And I would say like a story of rigidity, if you will. So he was a Stanford grad and was looking for a match who was also a Stanford grad and
Somebody who had former athletic experience having been on a tennis team at Stanford because he had been part of the Stanford tennis team way back when. And so I told him, okay... I think this is really interesting if this is kind of your thing, but I think it's a little rigid. So I really wanted, though, to respect his criteria and his kind of hopes and dreams with this. Sure.
Somebody who had former athletic experience having been on a tennis team at Stanford because he had been part of the Stanford tennis team way back when. And so I told him, okay... I think this is really interesting if this is kind of your thing, but I think it's a little rigid. So I really wanted, though, to respect his criteria and his kind of hopes and dreams with this. Sure.
Somebody who had former athletic experience having been on a tennis team at Stanford because he had been part of the Stanford tennis team way back when. And so I told him, okay... I think this is really interesting if this is kind of your thing, but I think it's a little rigid. So I really wanted, though, to respect his criteria and his kind of hopes and dreams with this. Sure.
We did a ton of introductions, and he found that amongst these alumni that had played tennis for Stanford, he was kind of fumbling around where he just wasn't like –
We did a ton of introductions, and he found that amongst these alumni that had played tennis for Stanford, he was kind of fumbling around where he just wasn't like –
We did a ton of introductions, and he found that amongst these alumni that had played tennis for Stanford, he was kind of fumbling around where he just wasn't like –
finding that chemistry he was hoping for and the women felt that i think maybe a lot of the first dates were a little forced because he really wanted it to work so i think through that approach he was almost trying to manufacture something that was not meant to be so he went through like maybe i want to say six to eight of these very particular introductions and then i said okay
finding that chemistry he was hoping for and the women felt that i think maybe a lot of the first dates were a little forced because he really wanted it to work so i think through that approach he was almost trying to manufacture something that was not meant to be so he went through like maybe i want to say six to eight of these very particular introductions and then i said okay
finding that chemistry he was hoping for and the women felt that i think maybe a lot of the first dates were a little forced because he really wanted it to work so i think through that approach he was almost trying to manufacture something that was not meant to be so he went through like maybe i want to say six to eight of these very particular introductions and then i said okay
Let's take a breath, take a few steps back and revisit your criteria and see if you can kind of widen the net a little bit and think about like maybe opening up your criteria to maybe different alumni from Stanford who didn't play a sport, right?
Let's take a breath, take a few steps back and revisit your criteria and see if you can kind of widen the net a little bit and think about like maybe opening up your criteria to maybe different alumni from Stanford who didn't play a sport, right?