Amy Andersen

Let's take a breath, take a few steps back and revisit your criteria and see if you can kind of widen the net a little bit and think about like maybe opening up your criteria to maybe different alumni from Stanford who didn't play a sport, right?

Maybe they're like really good at something else, which clearly if you got into Stanford, you were or are, but maybe you can just be a little bit more open-minded. Yeah. I think at that point, so it took some trial and error for him, right? He was kind of willing to go through this process and then realize, okay, something ain't working, you know, so let's revisit the criteria.

Maybe they're like really good at something else, which clearly if you got into Stanford, you were or are, but maybe you can just be a little bit more open-minded. Yeah. I think at that point, so it took some trial and error for him, right? He was kind of willing to go through this process and then realize, okay, something ain't working, you know, so let's revisit the criteria.

Maybe they're like really good at something else, which clearly if you got into Stanford, you were or are, but maybe you can just be a little bit more open-minded. Yeah. I think at that point, so it took some trial and error for him, right? He was kind of willing to go through this process and then realize, okay, something ain't working, you know, so let's revisit the criteria.

He listened to my advice, opened up. kind of his mindset and started meeting other women who graduated from Stanford. And that is when he finally had the chemistry with somebody who is definitely outside of her criteria or his criteria. You know, she had been a chess player at Stanford and was a swimmer.

He listened to my advice, opened up. kind of his mindset and started meeting other women who graduated from Stanford. And that is when he finally had the chemistry with somebody who is definitely outside of her criteria or his criteria. You know, she had been a chess player at Stanford and was a swimmer.

He listened to my advice, opened up. kind of his mindset and started meeting other women who graduated from Stanford. And that is when he finally had the chemistry with somebody who is definitely outside of her criteria or his criteria. You know, she had been a chess player at Stanford and was a swimmer.

So, you know, certainly still athletic, but just somebody who is actually out of his original phase.

So, you know, certainly still athletic, but just somebody who is actually out of his original phase.

So, you know, certainly still athletic, but just somebody who is actually out of his original phase.

thinking and so that is when the chemistry was there it was easy it was a really special situation for him because he was like oh my gosh like i think i've met the love of my life it definitely took some coaching from my angle for both of them um because i think for this woman um interestingly we had recruited her so she got like a cold email

thinking and so that is when the chemistry was there it was easy it was a really special situation for him because he was like oh my gosh like i think i've met the love of my life it definitely took some coaching from my angle for both of them um because i think for this woman um interestingly we had recruited her so she got like a cold email

thinking and so that is when the chemistry was there it was easy it was a really special situation for him because he was like oh my gosh like i think i've met the love of my life it definitely took some coaching from my angle for both of them um because i think for this woman um interestingly we had recruited her so she got like a cold email

from me just saying, you know, I'm representing this gentleman. Are you single? If you are, I would love to talk to you and introduce you to the idea of potentially meeting this amazing client. And so she agreed. She ended up meeting him. But after a couple of dates, she actually had a pretty big freak out because it was almost too good to be true for her.

from me just saying, you know, I'm representing this gentleman. Are you single? If you are, I would love to talk to you and introduce you to the idea of potentially meeting this amazing client. And so she agreed. She ended up meeting him. But after a couple of dates, she actually had a pretty big freak out because it was almost too good to be true for her.

from me just saying, you know, I'm representing this gentleman. Are you single? If you are, I would love to talk to you and introduce you to the idea of potentially meeting this amazing client. And so she agreed. She ended up meeting him. But after a couple of dates, she actually had a pretty big freak out because it was almost too good to be true for her.

Yeah, it's like this guy came into her life from literally out of nowhere and was so intentional and so just expressive and a good communicator and all these things that she had dreamed of, but it was almost like...

Yeah, it's like this guy came into her life from literally out of nowhere and was so intentional and so just expressive and a good communicator and all these things that she had dreamed of, but it was almost like...

Yeah, it's like this guy came into her life from literally out of nowhere and was so intentional and so just expressive and a good communicator and all these things that she had dreamed of, but it was almost like...

unreal it just wasn't like a it was like a fairy tale and so i remember this is a couple years ago i had a call with her and i said no this is this is actually real this is really happening like if you think he's maybe operating at a little bit of a quicker pace then you know you're comfortable with like