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Amy Herman

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255 total appearances

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Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

And two things struck me.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

I was looking at the painting, but I was also looking at all the people looking at the Mona Lisa.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

But if you and I are standing in the gallery, it looks like we're both looking at the Mona Lisa, but I wasn't looking at the Mona Lisa at all.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

I was watching all the people looking at the Mona Lisa.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

And the other thing that struck me is directly on the wall behind the gallery where the Mona Lisa is, is another da Vinci painting and no one was standing in front of that one.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

There are so many subtleties and nuances and colors about the Mona Lisa, in no way do we ever see the same thing.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

No two people ever see anything exactly the same way.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

And it sounds so far-fetched, but not only do no two people see anything the same way, no two people focus the same way.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

So if you and I are standing next to each other looking at the Mona Lisa, unless we articulate what we're looking at, you have no idea that

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

I'm looking at all the people around the Mona Lisa and I'm watching them watch the painting and you're looking at the painting.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

And if somebody saw the two of us, they'd both say, oh, look, those two people are looking at the Mona Lisa when that's not true at all.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

And art is really, it lends itself beautifully to this idea of how we look, how we see, and most importantly, how do we communicate what we see?

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

Well, there's a big so what, because first of all, when you mentioned the Mona Lisa, it's one of the most famous paintings in the world.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

And most people roll their eyes and say, yeah, Mona Lisa's been there, done that.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

I've seen it.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

I can describe it to you.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

But most people really can't.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

And so what I'm asking people to do is look at the nuance and the detail in a work of art, because it's the nuance and detail that enables us to differentiate among lots of situations.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

So many things.

Something You Should Know
How to See What Others Don’t & What Pain Is Really Telling You-SYSK Choice

To give you a prime example, and I'm not going to throw this into the political realm, but we're in an election year now.