Amy

No, thank you. I'm your host, Morgan. And today I have somewhat familiar faces for you all, unless you're new here. Welcome. But I am joined by my sister-in-law, Amy, and my brother, Matt. Hello. They have their own podcast, their very own show as well called Midwest Married. So if you can't get enough, you want more stories, relationship advice. You don't have to be from the Midwest to listen.

You can live anywhere, but you guys have your own show. It's pretty fun, too.

You can live anywhere, but you guys have your own show. It's pretty fun, too.

You can live anywhere, but you guys have your own show. It's pretty fun, too.

I'll be sure to link it. But today I'm getting into all sorts of just relationship dilemmas and marital woes, just all sorts of quality marital chaos. I need a title. I've been trying to think and rack my brain for a title. I didn't even put anything on the folder. I just had it labeled Matt and Amy on my folder because I've been waiting for you guys for a lot of these stories. I love it.

I'll be sure to link it. But today I'm getting into all sorts of just relationship dilemmas and marital woes, just all sorts of quality marital chaos. I need a title. I've been trying to think and rack my brain for a title. I didn't even put anything on the folder. I just had it labeled Matt and Amy on my folder because I've been waiting for you guys for a lot of these stories. I love it.

I'll be sure to link it. But today I'm getting into all sorts of just relationship dilemmas and marital woes, just all sorts of quality marital chaos. I need a title. I've been trying to think and rack my brain for a title. I didn't even put anything on the folder. I just had it labeled Matt and Amy on my folder because I've been waiting for you guys for a lot of these stories. I love it.

I don't know. We'll get to the end and you guys will give me a title. We'll figure it out. But buckle up for some of these. They're going to be good.

I don't know. We'll get to the end and you guys will give me a title. We'll figure it out. But buckle up for some of these. They're going to be good.

I don't know. We'll get to the end and you guys will give me a title. We'll figure it out. But buckle up for some of these. They're going to be good.

Perfect. Let's dive in. Okay. Up first, this is coming from AITAH, 24 days old, titled, Am I the Asshole? Husband and Mother-in-law are bullying me into being a stay-at-home mom, but I paid for our house. My husband is rich, like makes $50,000 a month rich. Nice. We agreed on three things before our baby was born.

Perfect. Let's dive in. Okay. Up first, this is coming from AITAH, 24 days old, titled, Am I the Asshole? Husband and Mother-in-law are bullying me into being a stay-at-home mom, but I paid for our house. My husband is rich, like makes $50,000 a month rich. Nice. We agreed on three things before our baby was born.

Perfect. Let's dive in. Okay. Up first, this is coming from AITAH, 24 days old, titled, Am I the Asshole? Husband and Mother-in-law are bullying me into being a stay-at-home mom, but I paid for our house. My husband is rich, like makes $50,000 a month rich. Nice. We agreed on three things before our baby was born.

One, if I covered the 20% down payment on our house, he'd cover the monthly expenses, including child care. Two, if I leave my high paying job after my maternity leave was up, my husband would support me, focusing on building my consulting business, which would give me more flexibility with our baby. And three, we'd get a full time nanny so we could both work.

One, if I covered the 20% down payment on our house, he'd cover the monthly expenses, including child care. Two, if I leave my high paying job after my maternity leave was up, my husband would support me, focusing on building my consulting business, which would give me more flexibility with our baby. And three, we'd get a full time nanny so we could both work.

One, if I covered the 20% down payment on our house, he'd cover the monthly expenses, including child care. Two, if I leave my high paying job after my maternity leave was up, my husband would support me, focusing on building my consulting business, which would give me more flexibility with our baby. And three, we'd get a full time nanny so we could both work.

And while I'd work from home to get to see the baby, and outside nanny hours we'd split childcare 50-50. The issue came up when now my husband refuses to lift a finger because he's the provider. He won't do any overnights, even though the baby takes bottles. I am exhausted and burnt out and feel like I got bait and switched.

And while I'd work from home to get to see the baby, and outside nanny hours we'd split childcare 50-50. The issue came up when now my husband refuses to lift a finger because he's the provider. He won't do any overnights, even though the baby takes bottles. I am exhausted and burnt out and feel like I got bait and switched.

And while I'd work from home to get to see the baby, and outside nanny hours we'd split childcare 50-50. The issue came up when now my husband refuses to lift a finger because he's the provider. He won't do any overnights, even though the baby takes bottles. I am exhausted and burnt out and feel like I got bait and switched.

I try to talk to him and he blew up at me, calling me a princess and lazy. I guess he ran to his mom because I got a message the next morning saying I'm putting the family in financial crisis if I won't be a stay-at-home mom for at least the next couple of months. Am I the asshole for telling them no, I will not be forced into being a stay-at-home mom?