André Duqum

It seems really noble, but it's also just reinforcing our own sense of inadequacy and feeling like we need to be the fixer.

It seems really noble, but it's also just reinforcing our own sense of inadequacy and feeling like we need to be the fixer.

It seems really noble, but it's also just reinforcing our own sense of inadequacy and feeling like we need to be the fixer.

Yeah. Do you think that the best thing that we can truly do if we want to inspire change is to be at ourself? Would you say that?

Yeah. Do you think that the best thing that we can truly do if we want to inspire change is to be at ourself? Would you say that?

Yeah. Do you think that the best thing that we can truly do if we want to inspire change is to be at ourself? Would you say that?

When meeting somebody in the courting phase, what are some red flags that you wouldn't presume or maybe expect or perceive are red flags in the moment?

When meeting somebody in the courting phase, what are some red flags that you wouldn't presume or maybe expect or perceive are red flags in the moment?

When meeting somebody in the courting phase, what are some red flags that you wouldn't presume or maybe expect or perceive are red flags in the moment?

Yeah. And it feels like the more you refine your capacity to listen, you can see where certain behaviors are actually coming from. And one that comes to mind is like being nice versus being kind.

Yeah. And it feels like the more you refine your capacity to listen, you can see where certain behaviors are actually coming from. And one that comes to mind is like being nice versus being kind.

Yeah. And it feels like the more you refine your capacity to listen, you can see where certain behaviors are actually coming from. And one that comes to mind is like being nice versus being kind.

Like being nice appears like it's a nice, it's a kind gesture, but in reality it can actually be quite manipulative.

Like being nice appears like it's a nice, it's a kind gesture, but in reality it can actually be quite manipulative.

Like being nice appears like it's a nice, it's a kind gesture, but in reality it can actually be quite manipulative.

Versus kindness is like genuine and from the heart.

Versus kindness is like genuine and from the heart.

Versus kindness is like genuine and from the heart.

And I'm just curious what you think about that because yeah, niceness can often be that behavioral compensation. Yeah. For various fears, you know?

And I'm just curious what you think about that because yeah, niceness can often be that behavioral compensation. Yeah. For various fears, you know?