André Duqum
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It feels like we often can have a fear of losing our parts. And it can make logical sense to us that like, you know, this part's not serving me, so yeah, let's heal it or maybe get rid of it, right? Which is its own illusion. Often these parts are what have driven our ambition to become successful or get many things that we like in our life, you know?
It feels like we often can have a fear of losing our parts. And it can make logical sense to us that like, you know, this part's not serving me, so yeah, let's heal it or maybe get rid of it, right? Which is its own illusion. Often these parts are what have driven our ambition to become successful or get many things that we like in our life, you know?
And so we have this fear of if I heal this part or let go of this part, then what about all these other things that I've garnered? And so what do you think about that? Because I've seen this so many times, right? So many amazing comedians were traumatized deeply and coped by being able to make their mother laugh, for example. Like Robin Williams is a powerful example.
And so we have this fear of if I heal this part or let go of this part, then what about all these other things that I've garnered? And so what do you think about that? Because I've seen this so many times, right? So many amazing comedians were traumatized deeply and coped by being able to make their mother laugh, for example. Like Robin Williams is a powerful example.
And so we have this fear of if I heal this part or let go of this part, then what about all these other things that I've garnered? And so what do you think about that? Because I've seen this so many times, right? So many amazing comedians were traumatized deeply and coped by being able to make their mother laugh, for example. Like Robin Williams is a powerful example.
And, you know, there's this deep feeling of if I'm okay with not being funny, you know, are these parts that I heal, then... My whole life has been built by traumatized aspects.
And, you know, there's this deep feeling of if I'm okay with not being funny, you know, are these parts that I heal, then... My whole life has been built by traumatized aspects.
And, you know, there's this deep feeling of if I'm okay with not being funny, you know, are these parts that I heal, then... My whole life has been built by traumatized aspects.
Yeah. Well, let's push. I want to push back a little bit.
Yeah. Well, let's push. I want to push back a little bit.
Yeah. Well, let's push. I want to push back a little bit.
Right. It feels like there's different places in which these energies can come from, right? Jumping into, for example, writing a book because you have this feeling of needing to control reality and scarcity of, if I don't do it, I won't make enough money or, you know, I won't be as famous or whatever the thing is, right?
Right. It feels like there's different places in which these energies can come from, right? Jumping into, for example, writing a book because you have this feeling of needing to control reality and scarcity of, if I don't do it, I won't make enough money or, you know, I won't be as famous or whatever the thing is, right?
Right. It feels like there's different places in which these energies can come from, right? Jumping into, for example, writing a book because you have this feeling of needing to control reality and scarcity of, if I don't do it, I won't make enough money or, you know, I won't be as famous or whatever the thing is, right?
Versus I have space, I have this inspiration that's like kind of evoking from within and you can feel the texture of both energies once you've experienced them both. One is coming from fear and another one's coming from love fundamentally, right? And so do you still label that part of being a controller to write your next book?
Versus I have space, I have this inspiration that's like kind of evoking from within and you can feel the texture of both energies once you've experienced them both. One is coming from fear and another one's coming from love fundamentally, right? And so do you still label that part of being a controller to write your next book?
Versus I have space, I have this inspiration that's like kind of evoking from within and you can feel the texture of both energies once you've experienced them both. One is coming from fear and another one's coming from love fundamentally, right? And so do you still label that part of being a controller to write your next book?
Because I feel like it's actually like a deeper aspect of us that is inspired to go and do it.
Because I feel like it's actually like a deeper aspect of us that is inspired to go and do it.
Because I feel like it's actually like a deeper aspect of us that is inspired to go and do it.