André Duqum

I have a couple of people in my life who have been in a long-term relationship, like 20, 30, 40 years plus, and it's so different than the challenges that come up in the first five years of a relationship. I'm just curious what you think about the saying that love isn't enough and that you need to like learn how to communicate.

I have a couple of people in my life who have been in a long-term relationship, like 20, 30, 40 years plus, and it's so different than the challenges that come up in the first five years of a relationship. I'm just curious what you think about the saying that love isn't enough and that you need to like learn how to communicate.

And I'm curious what you think the other aspects are that we need to really cultivate as skills within building a long term relationship.

And I'm curious what you think the other aspects are that we need to really cultivate as skills within building a long term relationship.

And I'm curious what you think the other aspects are that we need to really cultivate as skills within building a long term relationship.

Treating each other as best friends and roommates and all of the other things that partners are to each other. I think it can be... Like relationships can often default to the place where it becomes a comfort zone out of coping, not being able to be comfortable alone. And that can be a dangerous pitfall as well because...

Treating each other as best friends and roommates and all of the other things that partners are to each other. I think it can be... Like relationships can often default to the place where it becomes a comfort zone out of coping, not being able to be comfortable alone. And that can be a dangerous pitfall as well because...

Treating each other as best friends and roommates and all of the other things that partners are to each other. I think it can be... Like relationships can often default to the place where it becomes a comfort zone out of coping, not being able to be comfortable alone. And that can be a dangerous pitfall as well because...

We can only, I suppose, choose something to the degree in which we're free and we bring a sense of willingness to it instead of it's our default and just our safety and our comfort zone, which is amazing. Not saying anyone's wrong for wanting some comfort or safety, but how do you feel like our capacity to be good alone is a barometer for how much we've healed?

We can only, I suppose, choose something to the degree in which we're free and we bring a sense of willingness to it instead of it's our default and just our safety and our comfort zone, which is amazing. Not saying anyone's wrong for wanting some comfort or safety, but how do you feel like our capacity to be good alone is a barometer for how much we've healed?

We can only, I suppose, choose something to the degree in which we're free and we bring a sense of willingness to it instead of it's our default and just our safety and our comfort zone, which is amazing. Not saying anyone's wrong for wanting some comfort or safety, but how do you feel like our capacity to be good alone is a barometer for how much we've healed?

I want to read this quote that I saw in your book that I really loved. Um, There is an intrinsic and undeniable connection between the relationship you have with your own emotions and how well you will be able to show up for the emotions of those you love. If you run from your own tension, you will lack the experience to show up for the tension of others.

I want to read this quote that I saw in your book that I really loved. Um, There is an intrinsic and undeniable connection between the relationship you have with your own emotions and how well you will be able to show up for the emotions of those you love. If you run from your own tension, you will lack the experience to show up for the tension of others.

I want to read this quote that I saw in your book that I really loved. Um, There is an intrinsic and undeniable connection between the relationship you have with your own emotions and how well you will be able to show up for the emotions of those you love. If you run from your own tension, you will lack the experience to show up for the tension of others.

And I think it just really invites this perspective of what it means to hold space for others to the degree we can for ourselves.

And I think it just really invites this perspective of what it means to hold space for others to the degree we can for ourselves.

And I think it just really invites this perspective of what it means to hold space for others to the degree we can for ourselves.

Have you found the skills you need to make it, let's say year five through 10 in relationship are different than the first five?

Have you found the skills you need to make it, let's say year five through 10 in relationship are different than the first five?

Have you found the skills you need to make it, let's say year five through 10 in relationship are different than the first five?