André Duqum

It's a gift to be able to see you work. And also, you came and worked with my men's group one night. Yeah, it was fun. What's fascinating is when you see the process of you working with somebody, it becomes quite obvious to everybody except the person who's being worked on. Because the nature of our blind spot is like,

It's a gift to be able to see you work. And also, you came and worked with my men's group one night. Yeah, it was fun. What's fascinating is when you see the process of you working with somebody, it becomes quite obvious to everybody except the person who's being worked on. Because the nature of our blind spot is like,

we can't see it we're operating through the lens of it and so we can't see ourselves because we're looking through it yeah i'm excited to unpack that a little bit but when you look at the possible perspectives that that you boil down that are prisons of our own making yeah what would you say are the are some of the most common ones um if you look at it from you know pattern perspective

we can't see it we're operating through the lens of it and so we can't see ourselves because we're looking through it yeah i'm excited to unpack that a little bit but when you look at the possible perspectives that that you boil down that are prisons of our own making yeah what would you say are the are some of the most common ones um if you look at it from you know pattern perspective

we can't see it we're operating through the lens of it and so we can't see ourselves because we're looking through it yeah i'm excited to unpack that a little bit but when you look at the possible perspectives that that you boil down that are prisons of our own making yeah what would you say are the are some of the most common ones um if you look at it from you know pattern perspective

Yeah, where growth is perceived in the acquisition of more as opposed to addition by subtraction and actually the removal of things.

Yeah, where growth is perceived in the acquisition of more as opposed to addition by subtraction and actually the removal of things.

Yeah, where growth is perceived in the acquisition of more as opposed to addition by subtraction and actually the removal of things.

It downloads pretty heavy, and I want to kind of zoom in and slow down on this aspect because it's really important we hit this. Yeah.

It downloads pretty heavy, and I want to kind of zoom in and slow down on this aspect because it's really important we hit this. Yeah.

It downloads pretty heavy, and I want to kind of zoom in and slow down on this aspect because it's really important we hit this. Yeah.

You know, because, so there's the saying, you know, best time to plant a tree is a hundred years ago. The best time is today. It would have been nice if we were raised in an environment that was loving from the get-go where we didn't develop these behavioral compensations.

You know, because, so there's the saying, you know, best time to plant a tree is a hundred years ago. The best time is today. It would have been nice if we were raised in an environment that was loving from the get-go where we didn't develop these behavioral compensations.

You know, because, so there's the saying, you know, best time to plant a tree is a hundred years ago. The best time is today. It would have been nice if we were raised in an environment that was loving from the get-go where we didn't develop these behavioral compensations.

And yet now we have a lot of evidence and the accumulation and momentum for believing our own sense of inadequacy, for example, to present day. And the best time to realize it's illusory is right now, whoever's listening to this.

And yet now we have a lot of evidence and the accumulation and momentum for believing our own sense of inadequacy, for example, to present day. And the best time to realize it's illusory is right now, whoever's listening to this.

And yet now we have a lot of evidence and the accumulation and momentum for believing our own sense of inadequacy, for example, to present day. And the best time to realize it's illusory is right now, whoever's listening to this.

A couple of things I want to dive into here. First, do you perceive like from meta systemic thinking, are there patterns within a hierarchy of patterns? For example, we're speaking English within Los Angeles, which is within the context of America, which is in the context of China. the Milky Way galaxy, for example, like there are nodes within nodes. Yeah, for sure.

A couple of things I want to dive into here. First, do you perceive like from meta systemic thinking, are there patterns within a hierarchy of patterns? For example, we're speaking English within Los Angeles, which is within the context of America, which is in the context of China. the Milky Way galaxy, for example, like there are nodes within nodes. Yeah, for sure.

A couple of things I want to dive into here. First, do you perceive like from meta systemic thinking, are there patterns within a hierarchy of patterns? For example, we're speaking English within Los Angeles, which is within the context of America, which is in the context of China. the Milky Way galaxy, for example, like there are nodes within nodes. Yeah, for sure.