Andrew Huberman

And that kind of long term thing.

Yeah.

The consistency of the stability of the relationship over time.

So I wish that, you know, it's a shame that these apps don't select for action.

You're just throwing people under the bus just to see what happens.

Yeah, no, no, I'm just kidding.

Yeah, and there's always the natural desire to want to know if one's time and energy is well spent.

I mean, it's really, in some sense, the most important investment is time and energy.

It's kind of all we have.

It's all we have.

And that's very evolutionary in its core.

You talked before about this kind of crystal ball question or probing for particular disclosures.

that people are willing or not willing to make as a perhaps better indication of whether somebody is interesting or appropriate for you.

I realize, however, that the notion that there's like a question or a set of questions that would say green light, that's not true.

That just can't be true.

There's probably some answers that are red light.

Everyone knows red light.

Hopefully they're paying attention to that.

But it's the yellow lights and not knowing what questions to ask to see if there's a sort of green light path forward.

Tell me what those questions are.