Andrew Huberman

Phrase differently.

If two people are on a date and they have only a few minutes, it's kind of a speed dating type situation.

And they need to make a good assessment as to whether or not they genuinely would like to spend more time with the person again.

What are the questions they should ask?

Do you think there's more excitement if...

one gets the sense that the other person is taking a bit of a risk in disclosing it.

Not like I've been dying to tell somebody this and there's never been opportunity.

Thanks for giving me the opportunity.

And, you know, I, whatever, I always, you know, wanted to come back in my second life as a guppy or something.

I don't know.

I'm picking a trivial example on purpose because it's not true.

Much better tropical fish, big tropical fish enthusiasts.

Much better.

Freshwater discus, much better fish.

Owned by me because we have a really good life.

Take really good care of my freshwater discus.

But in all seriousness, does that mean that people are walking around harboring, especially single people, are harboring parts of themselves that they're craving intimacy, you know, that's of the...

exchange things that they've never told anyone that they wish they could tell someone to feel safe enough to tell them.

Is that what you're talking about?

Like, you know, creating a real moment of intimacy early on.