Andrew Huberman

And then she said something that was absolutely like shocking to me that I've shared with other female friends and some men and they always go, no way.

And she said, I feel like I have to go like flirt with a really attractive guy now.

And it was clear that despite being incredibly attractive, incredibly accomplished,

and super athlete was questioning her own value.

This is very evolutionary biology because the guys that were approaching her were in her mind, very quote unquote, low value, unattractive.

It like got to her.

You know, of course my interpretation was, okay, guys, the next time a really attractive woman walks up to you and seems like she's chatting you up,

you don't know that it's actually about you.

Like just know that it may not be about you.

Like note to self.

And what's wild is that years later, I...

observed and talked to someone in a basically same dynamic, but she's married.

And she said, yeah, if a bunch of people hit, people always hit on this other woman too.

She's like, if they do that, I sort of feel like I have to go kind of get a clear perception again of whether or not I could be with an attractive guy.

Now, granted, she's married to a super successful, what anyone, male or female, would describe as super good looking guy.

And they have a super stable family.

And I thought to myself, oh my God.

And I don't know that this is unique to women.

I don't know.

But it's kind of weird if you think about it.