Andrew Huberman

Now, it could be their unique insecurity, but it's like if data start coming in,

Let's flip it.

If a lot of really attractive people of the opposite sex start talking to you, whoever's listening to this, you perhaps start to wonder if something important is going on there.

There's information there.

I just would like you to reflect on this.

I've been perplexed by it for a long time.

In some sense, it makes total sense.

But as a scientist, I've learned, yeah, but.

It's just like, what's really going on here?

Well, I think it was a question, am I losing it, was kind of the language that came out.

Am I losing it?

Am I losing it?

Whatever it was.

Oh, I would observe that many times.

It makes me wonder whether our—

Notions of self.

And this goes back to what we were talking about before the Esther Perel thing and attractiveness that sort of boomerangs back into the relationship.

Something that's going to be uncomfortable for a lot of people to hear.

But at some level, all of it makes me wonder whether there's a healthy compartmentalization that.

we could adopt as a society, which is not to say like anyone can be attracted to anyone and therefore commitment isn't real, nor is it saying like, okay, when you're in a committed relationship, it's a complete black box, right?