André Duqum
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And I can reliably see that we always will say we want something we believe we're worthy of. And so it's like there are confines within what we say we want, you know, between subconscious limiting beliefs and self-worth.
And I can reliably see that we always will say we want something we believe we're worthy of. And so it's like there are confines within what we say we want, you know, between subconscious limiting beliefs and self-worth.
And I know a lot of your work is really supporting people stretch to see what they truly are worthy of and are deserving of. What would you say is the thesis and kind of premise with your book, with like a bunch of your work now, what do you boil it down to as the core of what you're trying to support people with?
And I know a lot of your work is really supporting people stretch to see what they truly are worthy of and are deserving of. What would you say is the thesis and kind of premise with your book, with like a bunch of your work now, what do you boil it down to as the core of what you're trying to support people with?
And I know a lot of your work is really supporting people stretch to see what they truly are worthy of and are deserving of. What would you say is the thesis and kind of premise with your book, with like a bunch of your work now, what do you boil it down to as the core of what you're trying to support people with?
What do you see as the predominant barriers that stop people from doing so?
What do you see as the predominant barriers that stop people from doing so?
What do you see as the predominant barriers that stop people from doing so?
I think... Life is so trippy where we often project the things we want as only being capable of getting outside of ourself. There's externalization of feelings that we really can only give ourself. And we can, of course, get in the mirrors through relationships and career and things. But in many ways, we truly want to become the love that we seek. And we seek it through many different means.
I think... Life is so trippy where we often project the things we want as only being capable of getting outside of ourself. There's externalization of feelings that we really can only give ourself. And we can, of course, get in the mirrors through relationships and career and things. But in many ways, we truly want to become the love that we seek. And we seek it through many different means.
I think... Life is so trippy where we often project the things we want as only being capable of getting outside of ourself. There's externalization of feelings that we really can only give ourself. And we can, of course, get in the mirrors through relationships and career and things. But in many ways, we truly want to become the love that we seek. And we seek it through many different means.
And we want the feelings behind the things that we say we want. And so how much of your work do you see is bringing people back into realizing that they can actually self-source a lot of the things that they are so clinging externally for?
And we want the feelings behind the things that we say we want. And so how much of your work do you see is bringing people back into realizing that they can actually self-source a lot of the things that they are so clinging externally for?
And we want the feelings behind the things that we say we want. And so how much of your work do you see is bringing people back into realizing that they can actually self-source a lot of the things that they are so clinging externally for?
Mm-hmm. It's really a persistent delusion. It's so enchanting. And of course, not just with romantic relationships, but so many different things we outsource our sense of joy. And I do think that there is a level of fulfillment that comes with alignment of what you feel like you're here to be doing in your career and being matched with a partner that is in alignment with your values.
Mm-hmm. It's really a persistent delusion. It's so enchanting. And of course, not just with romantic relationships, but so many different things we outsource our sense of joy. And I do think that there is a level of fulfillment that comes with alignment of what you feel like you're here to be doing in your career and being matched with a partner that is in alignment with your values.
Mm-hmm. It's really a persistent delusion. It's so enchanting. And of course, not just with romantic relationships, but so many different things we outsource our sense of joy. And I do think that there is a level of fulfillment that comes with alignment of what you feel like you're here to be doing in your career and being matched with a partner that is in alignment with your values.
But there's kind of two routes, right? It's like first we either discover before going to relationships that that delusion is in fact a delusion. Or we learn through the trials and tribulations in the relationship that we're putting our expectations of fulfillment of love solely in another person.
But there's kind of two routes, right? It's like first we either discover before going to relationships that that delusion is in fact a delusion. Or we learn through the trials and tribulations in the relationship that we're putting our expectations of fulfillment of love solely in another person.
But there's kind of two routes, right? It's like first we either discover before going to relationships that that delusion is in fact a delusion. Or we learn through the trials and tribulations in the relationship that we're putting our expectations of fulfillment of love solely in another person.