André Duqum
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And I'm just curious how much of the trife you see in relationships are stemming from an overload of expectations.
And I'm just curious how much of the trife you see in relationships are stemming from an overload of expectations.
And I'm just curious how much of the trife you see in relationships are stemming from an overload of expectations.
And the reality of how it happens all the time is very much so unconscious, right? Like we're unaware to the degree in which our subconscious projections are happening. We're just like looking through them. We're too close to our own bullshit in many ways. Yeah.
And the reality of how it happens all the time is very much so unconscious, right? Like we're unaware to the degree in which our subconscious projections are happening. We're just like looking through them. We're too close to our own bullshit in many ways. Yeah.
And the reality of how it happens all the time is very much so unconscious, right? Like we're unaware to the degree in which our subconscious projections are happening. We're just like looking through them. We're too close to our own bullshit in many ways. Yeah.
I know, for sure. So I'm curious how much you see, like, for example... When people talk about like we go out and try to date our parents and we look for what's familiar and that feels safe to us. Even if love showed up in a chaotic format when we were younger, it feels safer to us because it's familiar. Yeah.
I know, for sure. So I'm curious how much you see, like, for example... When people talk about like we go out and try to date our parents and we look for what's familiar and that feels safe to us. Even if love showed up in a chaotic format when we were younger, it feels safer to us because it's familiar. Yeah.
I know, for sure. So I'm curious how much you see, like, for example... When people talk about like we go out and try to date our parents and we look for what's familiar and that feels safe to us. Even if love showed up in a chaotic format when we were younger, it feels safer to us because it's familiar. Yeah.
How do you navigate getting awareness and bringing mindfulness to people that are projecting a lot of that stuff?
How do you navigate getting awareness and bringing mindfulness to people that are projecting a lot of that stuff?
How do you navigate getting awareness and bringing mindfulness to people that are projecting a lot of that stuff?
Yeah, and it also feels like It's inevitable that friction and tension will show up in relationship dynamics. It's almost perfectly designed to bring up our stuff.
Yeah, and it also feels like It's inevitable that friction and tension will show up in relationship dynamics. It's almost perfectly designed to bring up our stuff.
Yeah, and it also feels like It's inevitable that friction and tension will show up in relationship dynamics. It's almost perfectly designed to bring up our stuff.
How helpful do you feel like it is to come into relationships with the knowing that they are a mirror? I think that invites the opportunity to view challenges as they arise as opportunities for growth.
How helpful do you feel like it is to come into relationships with the knowing that they are a mirror? I think that invites the opportunity to view challenges as they arise as opportunities for growth.
How helpful do you feel like it is to come into relationships with the knowing that they are a mirror? I think that invites the opportunity to view challenges as they arise as opportunities for growth.
Yeah, we don't often like to look at what our part is in play here.
Yeah, we don't often like to look at what our part is in play here.