André Duqum

Yeah, I think there's just... We agree on a lot of this and there's just like slightly different language, you know, like by...

focusing on the root you can then you'll get the fruit a lot of people want to have the fruit the result the relationship the success right um but the the focusing on the light that sort of bifurcates into all the different colors is the same analogy focusing on the root and the environment where the seed is nurtured and then blooms and to bear the many fruits whatever it might be which is

I feel like life always has a greater plan of what those fruits are than our own preconceived notions, which are always informed by family or society and culture, which is inherently limiting.

And so I'm sure in your experience, it sounds like when you shared your story, you've been very surprised by what's come in.

It was greater than you could have imagined by focusing on the root and the source first.

I also, I was referring to that, but I don't actually, I believe that most people like everything happens for a reason when you give it a reason.

And that the meaning that we are placing to various events are largely self-induced.

Like for just random challenges.

Yeah.

Can we talk about it?

For sure.

Sure, sure.

Yeah, well, I would say that

You don't have to use names, but let's say, what would be a challenge there?

We could pull up a random example, but I would say that depending on who the person are, and I'm curious because there's probably, you notice an archetype of people that are attracted to your work, and people, I'm sure you see similar themes come up, and

The context that you give for the challenges that come in their life are very helpful for certain people.

For certain other people, they might need a different path or different language to have a sense of meaning for why the things that are happening are happening.

And so I'm sure, yeah, I'm happy to go into an example.

Did you have one?

In a roundabout way, like if somebody has come to me recently with like a relationship struggle where they seem to keep meeting the pattern that is a reflection of the beliefs they have in themselves about like what you said, like what men are or why nothing concrete seems to stay in their life.