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Andy Frisella

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
67584 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

And that's the attitude that you have.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

So...

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

Yeah, man.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

I mean, look, you fucked up.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

What'd you learn?

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

Tomorrow, you're picking a fuck up and you start moving from wherever you are back towards where you want to go.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

It's that simple, dude.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

You're just locking in your brain of how your life was when you were like that, and you don't go back.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

This is why we talk about after 75 hard, you can really tell who did 75 hard the right way by how they react on day 76.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

If on day 76 they got a big cake and they go out and have a big meal and they fucking โ€“

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

And they go celebrate the old way and drink and all this shit.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

You know they didn't do it right because if they had done it right, they'd be so fucking afraid of becoming who they were pre-75 that they wouldn't do that.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

They would say, okay, I don't want to lose this, bro.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

And this is why...

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

know the people who really get it and the people who do it right tend to roll right into phase one afterwards because they want to lock that in right and that's also why there's a required 30-day break between phase one and two because you need to understand that this is something that diminishes this is something that is perishable this is something that goes away and then if you want to get it back you have to start following

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

the things that you were doing to feel good and this doesn't necessarily mean 75 hard but it means in life okay when things are good they're good when you're on it you're on it when you have momentum you created it when you have discipline you cultivated it but if you don't practice that shit and you just try to you know float through and you think you got it good enough and you're gonna get smacked in the fucking mouth okay and that's what the break is about

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

It's about learning that, no, you haven't changed yet, motherfucker.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

You're just doing the actions of a successful person and it hasn't locked in.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

And you start to understand, okay, this is a perishable skill that I have to stay on top of.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

And that's where the change starts to happen mentally in real way because you're like, oh,