Angie

my mom thought in a month he was going to be better and go back to how he was and everything was going to be good.

Well, obviously he's not, he didn't.

The biggest issue he had after the stroke is his speech.

Um, everything else, he kind of came back, but of course, 80, not, not how he was before.

And she's just mean to him.

She's just, she says things and she does things and, um,

And she's just, she's just, and it's not just him.

She's kind of mean to everybody, but.

No, she's, she's, it's new for me to see her do it with him.

Okay.

I've seen her do it with me and my siblings.

And, and I don't know that she, she, she just says mean things.

Like for instance, he, so he had the, they had quote unquote chores before the stroke.

Like he would clean out the dishwasher washer.

He would make the bed or he would fold the towels.

And after the stroke, she would, she started complaining about him not helping.

And he had a freaking stroke.

I know that's what I said.

So I said to be kind without yelling at her.

I said, mom,