Angie

My brother lives about an hour away.

we offer to come over we offer i mean they've got money they could pay somebody to move the so my sister and i have this conversation we should pay somebody to mow the yard for them and then we're like then what are they going to do right they're so healthy and able to do it it gives them something to do until they're not able to do it then but but but the little things like

like making him want lunch or making him dinner, or he won't tell me what to.

And so my, my husband, here's the thing.

Yeah, it makes me sad to hear you say that.

Yeah.

But, well, two things.

I have two things to ask you about that.

Number one, she doesn't do it to, like, she can have neighbors that come over and she's the nicest person ever.

Is that normal?

So, would... I already know the answer to this, probably.

Would she...

So when he first had the stroke, so he had the stroke in 2020.

So, of course, stupid COVID.

Right.

But the doctor had said they had suggested support groups for both of them, like a stroke support group and a caregiver support group.

And none of those were open during the time.

And here we are five years later.

Would she benefit from something like that or would it be performative?

Would it just be both?