Anna Runkle

And you'd almost have to wonder if there was some payoff in it, right? And I've got a book coming out in October about that. I call it covert avoidance. That if you are continuously getting obsessed with or into a relationship with somebody who can't love you back, you're avoidant. You're avoidant. And no one who's doing that perceives themselves as avoidant. They're hungry. They're chasing.

And you'd almost have to wonder if there was some payoff in it, right? And I've got a book coming out in October about that. I call it covert avoidance. That if you are continuously getting obsessed with or into a relationship with somebody who can't love you back, you're avoidant. You're avoidant. And no one who's doing that perceives themselves as avoidant. They're hungry. They're chasing.

And you'd almost have to wonder if there was some payoff in it, right? And I've got a book coming out in October about that. I call it covert avoidance. That if you are continuously getting obsessed with or into a relationship with somebody who can't love you back, you're avoidant. You're avoidant. And no one who's doing that perceives themselves as avoidant. They're hungry. They're chasing.

They're trying. They're begging and hoping. But it's avoidance.

They're trying. They're begging and hoping. But it's avoidance.

They're trying. They're begging and hoping. But it's avoidance.

Oh, that's so good.

Oh, that's so good.

Oh, that's so good.

Yeah, I do.

Yeah, I do.

Yeah, I do.

That's exactly right. You've outsourced it and now you can perceive yourself as the good one and, um, And put the power, the locus of control in the other person.

That's exactly right. You've outsourced it and now you can perceive yourself as the good one and, um, And put the power, the locus of control in the other person.

That's exactly right. You've outsourced it and now you can perceive yourself as the good one and, um, And put the power, the locus of control in the other person.

Yeah, yeah. And I don't think anybody does it consciously, but I think a lot of avoidance is like that. There's so many forms that we are avoiding. We're avoiding our lives. We're avoiding true connection with other people. And... I just finished my manuscript. Congratulations. Thank you. I've been thinking a lot about it. My last book was re-regulated about nervous system.

Yeah, yeah. And I don't think anybody does it consciously, but I think a lot of avoidance is like that. There's so many forms that we are avoiding. We're avoiding our lives. We're avoiding true connection with other people. And... I just finished my manuscript. Congratulations. Thank you. I've been thinking a lot about it. My last book was re-regulated about nervous system.

Yeah, yeah. And I don't think anybody does it consciously, but I think a lot of avoidance is like that. There's so many forms that we are avoiding. We're avoiding our lives. We're avoiding true connection with other people. And... I just finished my manuscript. Congratulations. Thank you. I've been thinking a lot about it. My last book was re-regulated about nervous system.

And I talk about the disconnection there, but now I've gone for the deep dive to the disconnection, which is basically where the devil gets in. That's just... Without genuine connection, we get weirder and weirder and people get, they feel offended when I say that. So I'll speak for myself. When I'm isolated, I get weird and not in a good way. I get cranky.

And I talk about the disconnection there, but now I've gone for the deep dive to the disconnection, which is basically where the devil gets in. That's just... Without genuine connection, we get weirder and weirder and people get, they feel offended when I say that. So I'll speak for myself. When I'm isolated, I get weird and not in a good way. I get cranky.