Anna

And we just don't have, like...

And we just don't have, like...

I feel like you've nailed it. Like I'm not expecting an apology every day. I mean, gosh, this has been like four years ago, but you're right. Like something hasn't been done yet that, is allowing me to like be free of it.

I feel like you've nailed it. Like I'm not expecting an apology every day. I mean, gosh, this has been like four years ago, but you're right. Like something hasn't been done yet that, is allowing me to like be free of it.

I feel like you've nailed it. Like I'm not expecting an apology every day. I mean, gosh, this has been like four years ago, but you're right. Like something hasn't been done yet that, is allowing me to like be free of it.

I'm really sorry for crying.

I'm really sorry for crying.

I'm really sorry for crying.

You know, I should give him a little bit of credit in the sense that he has done those things back then. He did allow me a few times to message her on his devices so that it wasn't coming from me. It was coming from him.

You know, I should give him a little bit of credit in the sense that he has done those things back then. He did allow me a few times to message her on his devices so that it wasn't coming from me. It was coming from him.

You know, I should give him a little bit of credit in the sense that he has done those things back then. He did allow me a few times to message her on his devices so that it wasn't coming from me. It was coming from him.

And like, we would sit down together and, you know, come up with something that, you know, that we were both comfortable saying, like, you know, not trying to be comfortable for him, but, you know, we just, we did it together. And I think that was his way of, you know, contributing to the solution. So when she reached out this time, I just reacted, like react, messaged him or messaged her.

And like, we would sit down together and, you know, come up with something that, you know, that we were both comfortable saying, like, you know, not trying to be comfortable for him, but, you know, we just, we did it together. And I think that was his way of, you know, contributing to the solution. So when she reached out this time, I just reacted, like react, messaged him or messaged her.

And like, we would sit down together and, you know, come up with something that, you know, that we were both comfortable saying, like, you know, not trying to be comfortable for him, but, you know, we just, we did it together. And I think that was his way of, you know, contributing to the solution. So when she reached out this time, I just reacted, like react, messaged him or messaged her.

You know, obviously he had no problem with it. But, you know, that was kind of the end of the conversation. You know, you're right. Like there was no follow up, like, you know, a week or two later to see how that would make me feel. Because we're well into our, you know, our new life.

You know, obviously he had no problem with it. But, you know, that was kind of the end of the conversation. You know, you're right. Like there was no follow up, like, you know, a week or two later to see how that would make me feel. Because we're well into our, you know, our new life.

You know, obviously he had no problem with it. But, you know, that was kind of the end of the conversation. You know, you're right. Like there was no follow up, like, you know, a week or two later to see how that would make me feel. Because we're well into our, you know, our new life.

Totally. Absolutely. And I think too, like, you know, because we have done so much therapy and marriage counseling, you know, and every time our marriage counselor is always just like, you know, she's very encouraging of what's in the past is in the past in order to move on, you have to leave it there. And, you know, that concept just doesn't work for my brain.

Totally. Absolutely. And I think too, like, you know, because we have done so much therapy and marriage counseling, you know, and every time our marriage counselor is always just like, you know, she's very encouraging of what's in the past is in the past in order to move on, you have to leave it there. And, you know, that concept just doesn't work for my brain.

Totally. Absolutely. And I think too, like, you know, because we have done so much therapy and marriage counseling, you know, and every time our marriage counselor is always just like, you know, she's very encouraging of what's in the past is in the past in order to move on, you have to leave it there. And, you know, that concept just doesn't work for my brain.