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Two or three months into our engagement, I had discovered he had been talking with multiple people from different dating apps.

I think we should continue with the wedding because there's a lot of money invested.

Hi, Dr. John.

How are you?

I'm doing great.

Glad to talk to you.

What's up?

So, my question for you is if my fiance and I should proceed with our planned wedding or not due to some infidelity discovered right before our engagement.

Yeah.

So, we got engaged last summer, and then about two or three months into our engagement, I had...

discovered on a household iPad that before our engagement, he had been talking with multiple people from different dating apps.

And I was able to see all the messages were still there.

I think he had forgotten about them.

Yeah.

So I confronted him with it, but this was months old to him at this point.

So he had sort of kind of forgotten about it, moved on, and it was fresh to me.

So

It's caused some fights and tension in the home since then, and he wants to potentially postpone the wedding.

He thinks it's a good idea to postpone it while I finish healing or while I heal.

So I think we should continue with the wedding because there's a lot of money invested.