Anne

I think there was tension between us.

We were long distance, and he just wanted a release.

I don't think he was actually looking for anything or anyone else.

He just wanted that attention.

And I wasn't physically nearby to give that.

Right.

I believe he has, in his mind, he's done the work, and he's deleted everything, and he's given me...

access to his phone and, um, he's, you know, open and honest about things.

And, uh, he feels that he's like moved on from this.

I think he's sort of repented and, and, uh, healed from it.

And he knows that he doesn't want to do that again and go through this again, of course.

Right.

So he, um,

He, yeah, yeah.

Right.

And it's been, it's been a few, it's been several months since I found this out.

So I really had hoped that I could be somebody who was strong and could forgive him and, you know,

not forget, but move on.

And I think he's saying that I'm still bringing it up even months later, and I've not healed from it.

So he's saying, well, maybe we should just hold off on it while you learn to trust me again.