Anne

So I just don't know what to do. I don't know how to, I don't know if I stop talking to her because it's so weighing on me every day. But then I don't want to leave her, obviously, right? But I just don't know what to do. And I'm pretty good with compartmentalizing my husband and I in ministry. We hear a lot of stories. But it hits different when it's somebody that you love.

So I just don't know what to do. I don't know how to, I don't know if I stop talking to her because it's so weighing on me every day. But then I don't want to leave her, obviously, right? But I just don't know what to do. And I'm pretty good with compartmentalizing my husband and I in ministry. We hear a lot of stories. But it hits different when it's somebody that you love.

So I just don't know what to do. I don't know how to, I don't know if I stop talking to her because it's so weighing on me every day. But then I don't want to leave her, obviously, right? But I just don't know what to do. And I'm pretty good with compartmentalizing my husband and I in ministry. We hear a lot of stories. But it hits different when it's somebody that you love.

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I mean, I'm a plan person, so... I've usually set up like, okay, well, these are the steps we should take. Let's set aside money. Let's have a to-go bag. Let's have a safe place to go, like those kind of things, ways to get away, stuff like that. And I just think that she's, well, I think she's scared of the change, right? Because even if she's in it, and it's awful.

I mean, I'm a plan person, so... I've usually set up like, okay, well, these are the steps we should take. Let's set aside money. Let's have a to-go bag. Let's have a safe place to go, like those kind of things, ways to get away, stuff like that. And I just think that she's, well, I think she's scared of the change, right? Because even if she's in it, and it's awful.

I mean, I'm a plan person, so... I've usually set up like, okay, well, these are the steps we should take. Let's set aside money. Let's have a to-go bag. Let's have a safe place to go, like those kind of things, ways to get away, stuff like that. And I just think that she's, well, I think she's scared of the change, right? Because even if she's in it, and it's awful.

Sometimes we stay in stuff because it's normal.

Sometimes we stay in stuff because it's normal.

Sometimes we stay in stuff because it's normal.

So the idea of the change is probably what's scaring her, but like, I'm, I think that's probably what bothers me the most. I'm good with boundaries. Like I'm a Henry cloud kind of person. I am good with boundaries. I got, I have this figured out in my day to day life, but this one is just like, yeah, Usually if I give advice and it just keeps, you know, falling on deaf ears, I walk away.

So the idea of the change is probably what's scaring her, but like, I'm, I think that's probably what bothers me the most. I'm good with boundaries. Like I'm a Henry cloud kind of person. I am good with boundaries. I got, I have this figured out in my day to day life, but this one is just like, yeah, Usually if I give advice and it just keeps, you know, falling on deaf ears, I walk away.