Podcast Appearances
I know. I'm stressed out.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Three. Three.
Three. Three.
Three. Three.
But he'd have to actually feel that way. He doesn't feel that way.
But he'd have to actually feel that way. He doesn't feel that way.
But he'd have to actually feel that way. He doesn't feel that way.
It's been a sexless marriage from the get-go. Like he told me before we got married, it's because of his religious reasons, which we had sex. But, you know, he felt better when we were married. But even when we got married, it was one time... the entire year. And then it was exactly like that after that once every few years.
It's been a sexless marriage from the get-go. Like he told me before we got married, it's because of his religious reasons, which we had sex. But, you know, he felt better when we were married. But even when we got married, it was one time... the entire year. And then it was exactly like that after that once every few years.
It's been a sexless marriage from the get-go. Like he told me before we got married, it's because of his religious reasons, which we had sex. But, you know, he felt better when we were married. But even when we got married, it was one time... the entire year. And then it was exactly like that after that once every few years.
And it was so bad for me because it made me feel horrible as a person that I was cutting. And because of his upbringing, he had zero responses like, okay. And I just wanted him to hear me, how it's affecting me. I made him go to couples counseling. We did three different couples counselors. We've been kicked out of everyone. And I'm just kind of, why have you been kicked out?
And it was so bad for me because it made me feel horrible as a person that I was cutting. And because of his upbringing, he had zero responses like, okay. And I just wanted him to hear me, how it's affecting me. I made him go to couples counseling. We did three different couples counselors. We've been kicked out of everyone. And I'm just kind of, why have you been kicked out?
And it was so bad for me because it made me feel horrible as a person that I was cutting. And because of his upbringing, he had zero responses like, okay. And I just wanted him to hear me, how it's affecting me. I made him go to couples counseling. We did three different couples counselors. We've been kicked out of everyone. And I'm just kind of, why have you been kicked out?
The first one when I was pregnant was my second. And it's because the counselor said he knew what to do and he wasn't willing to do the work. So no affection, none of that in the house. I was working on how I talked to him to make sure I was stroking his ego, making him feel better, not putting him down, not comparing him to how awesome my dad is or whatever it was. So that was that.
The first one when I was pregnant was my second. And it's because the counselor said he knew what to do and he wasn't willing to do the work. So no affection, none of that in the house. I was working on how I talked to him to make sure I was stroking his ego, making him feel better, not putting him down, not comparing him to how awesome my dad is or whatever it was. So that was that.
The first one when I was pregnant was my second. And it's because the counselor said he knew what to do and he wasn't willing to do the work. So no affection, none of that in the house. I was working on how I talked to him to make sure I was stroking his ego, making him feel better, not putting him down, not comparing him to how awesome my dad is or whatever it was. So that was that.
We waited a while. Then I, when I was, um, went through two miscarriages before my daughter, which let me just lead by saying all three of my kids are IVF babies, but we're not having lots of sex to have those.