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Arthur Brooks

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Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

What I would recommend is no multitasking while you're listening to my book, Paulie.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

So don't shop on Amazon while you're listening to my book or do two or three other things because then you're too occupied.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

So just listen while you're walking or maybe while you're sitting in your living room and that's fine.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

That's a good use of a device.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

And I'm not saying that just because it's my book.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

Second, this is from Lauren Prescott.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

Thanks, Lauren, for writing in at the website.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

Is there room for fun, less serious activities and leisure, such as playing a sport, trying a recipe, hosting a dinner party?

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

These aren't contemplative, but they seem productive a lot more than binge watching or scrolling.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

Boy, that's for sure.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

Now, when I did that episode on leisure, I'll put that in the links.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

I talked about the work of Joseph Pieper, the great 20th century philosopher.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

who is an expert in leisure.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

He called it the basis of culture.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

And he said that great leisure, deep leisure has three components, or it has three silos that you can be in.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

Number one is leisure based on deepening your metaphysical sense, your transcendence, maybe your spiritual life.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

Another is by learning something that they're not paying you to learn.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

And last but not least is deepening your love relationships.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

None of that rules out any of the stuff you talked about, Lauren.

Office Hours with Arthur Brooks
How to Stop Dating the Wrong Person

The whole idea of playing a sport, learning about something, especially doing it with friends.