Arthur Brooks

four steps depending on how you count it number one is the is the ignition of falling in love ignition is attraction and falling in love this is one of the reasons that you know even people who aren't shallow want to look good because you actually if you're going to start the falling in love process you actually have to have sex hormones involved estrogen estradiol testosterone

four steps depending on how you count it number one is the is the ignition of falling in love ignition is attraction and falling in love this is one of the reasons that you know even people who aren't shallow want to look good because you actually if you're going to start the falling in love process you actually have to have sex hormones involved estrogen estradiol testosterone

Both men and women have both have both just in different ratios. And you need both for the ignition of the attraction for romantic love. But that's just the very beginning. The second stage is where you actually start getting neurotransmitters involved, most notably norepinephrine and dopamine.

Both men and women have both have both just in different ratios. And you need both for the ignition of the attraction for romantic love. But that's just the very beginning. The second stage is where you actually start getting neurotransmitters involved, most notably norepinephrine and dopamine.

Both men and women have both have both just in different ratios. And you need both for the ignition of the attraction for romantic love. But that's just the very beginning. The second stage is where you actually start getting neurotransmitters involved, most notably norepinephrine and dopamine.

And what those do is they bring anticipation of reward, which is dopamine, and a sense of euphoria, which is norepinephrine produced by the adrenal glands right above the kidneys, right? And that's what makes you go from, I'm really attracted to this person to, I think she just sent me a text message. Like a text message, who cares, right?

And what those do is they bring anticipation of reward, which is dopamine, and a sense of euphoria, which is norepinephrine produced by the adrenal glands right above the kidneys, right? And that's what makes you go from, I'm really attracted to this person to, I think she just sent me a text message. Like a text message, who cares, right?

And what those do is they bring anticipation of reward, which is dopamine, and a sense of euphoria, which is norepinephrine produced by the adrenal glands right above the kidneys, right? And that's what makes you go from, I'm really attracted to this person to, I think she just sent me a text message. Like a text message, who cares, right?

But it's the anticipation of reward and the euphoria that comes from seeing the thing pop up on your phone. That's really, I mean, psychology, Chris, is biology. And this is a perfect case study of that. And that's the second step in falling in love is those two neurotransmitters kicking in.

But it's the anticipation of reward and the euphoria that comes from seeing the thing pop up on your phone. That's really, I mean, psychology, Chris, is biology. And this is a perfect case study of that. And that's the second step in falling in love is those two neurotransmitters kicking in.

But it's the anticipation of reward and the euphoria that comes from seeing the thing pop up on your phone. That's really, I mean, psychology, Chris, is biology. And this is a perfect case study of that. And that's the second step in falling in love is those two neurotransmitters kicking in.

It's your storefront, right? Once you get people into the store, okay, but the storefront is really important, right? Because if you don't have the storefront actually looking good, people are going to walk on by. So that's critically important. Now,

It's your storefront, right? Once you get people into the store, okay, but the storefront is really important, right? Because if you don't have the storefront actually looking good, people are going to walk on by. So that's critically important. Now,

It's your storefront, right? Once you get people into the store, okay, but the storefront is really important, right? Because if you don't have the storefront actually looking good, people are going to walk on by. So that's critically important. Now,

This is actually one of the reasons that dating apps are so problematic because they don't go past the storefront, storefront, storefront, storefront, storefront, right? When you're stuck talking to somebody at a party, there is the initial impression, which is largely physical, which instigates the chemical response in the sex hormones.

This is actually one of the reasons that dating apps are so problematic because they don't go past the storefront, storefront, storefront, storefront, storefront, right? When you're stuck talking to somebody at a party, there is the initial impression, which is largely physical, which instigates the chemical response in the sex hormones.

This is actually one of the reasons that dating apps are so problematic because they don't go past the storefront, storefront, storefront, storefront, storefront, right? When you're stuck talking to somebody at a party, there is the initial impression, which is largely physical, which instigates the chemical response in the sex hormones.

But then you have a conversation with the person, turns out they're intelligent, turns out they're funny, turns out they're interesting. And then that can solve, that can just cover a multitude of sins, physical sins, right? Okay. Then if you actually get to the next stage, that's when the neurotransmitters start to kick in and that's when things start to get weird.

But then you have a conversation with the person, turns out they're intelligent, turns out they're funny, turns out they're interesting. And then that can solve, that can just cover a multitude of sins, physical sins, right? Okay. Then if you actually get to the next stage, that's when the neurotransmitters start to kick in and that's when things start to get weird.

But then you have a conversation with the person, turns out they're intelligent, turns out they're funny, turns out they're interesting. And then that can solve, that can just cover a multitude of sins, physical sins, right? Okay. Then if you actually get to the next stage, that's when the neurotransmitters start to kick in and that's when things start to get weird.