Arthur C. Brooks
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
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Okay.
And it's complex, which means that I understand love.
I understand she loves me.
I understand.
I understand.
But I can't solve my marriage.
It's unsolvable.
It's only livable.
These are the things.
And the thing about romantic love is that's the most unsolvable thing that you have to live.
And the more you try to solve it with technology, you're trying to solve it, the further away you're going to get from it.
And that's why you got to give your heart away.
That's why you need to have your heart broken.
Yeah.
That's the way it is.
And that's one of the things that we find because suffering is one of the great secrets to meaning as well is that actually we find.
And so the more that you actually allow yourself
to actually go into the deep space of unanswerable questions of cosmic love.
I'm an old romantic, but the only reason is because- I love it though, it's great.
Oh yeah, I mean, it's the life and life.