Asher

Yep. Yeah, I know that. So we... He called me two Fridays ago now. Um, and I, that was my first response. It was like, Hey man, I'm getting in the car. It's five hours. It's, it's not going to take me very much time. Like let's hammer out a day that works for you guys in the next week. Um, and then they, they had some additional family come in.

Um, so we paused that and then I'm actually on a work vacation right now, but I land, I go back, uh, Friday, uh, And then, uh, I have a flight booked for the next week. They don't know I have a flight booked yet, but, um, I just, it was one of those, I'm going to, I'm going to do it and show up.

Um, so we paused that and then I'm actually on a work vacation right now, but I land, I go back, uh, Friday, uh, And then, uh, I have a flight booked for the next week. They don't know I have a flight booked yet, but, um, I just, it was one of those, I'm going to, I'm going to do it and show up.

Um, so we paused that and then I'm actually on a work vacation right now, but I land, I go back, uh, Friday, uh, And then, uh, I have a flight booked for the next week. They don't know I have a flight booked yet, but, um, I just, it was one of those, I'm going to, I'm going to do it and show up.

And I think that's the right thing to do, but you know, you just like with a situation like this, you never really know what is right and what is wrong.

And I think that's the right thing to do, but you know, you just like with a situation like this, you never really know what is right and what is wrong.

And I think that's the right thing to do, but you know, you just like with a situation like this, you never really know what is right and what is wrong.

Okay. Yeah, I know that.

Okay. Yeah, I know that.

Okay. Yeah, I know that.

Okay. Yeah, that's, I mean, that, I mean, so we're like a couple weeks into this now, and that is, I have felt myself being like, dude, I don't know what to say. Like, nothing I can physically say is going to make the situation any better.

Okay. Yeah, that's, I mean, that, I mean, so we're like a couple weeks into this now, and that is, I have felt myself being like, dude, I don't know what to say. Like, nothing I can physically say is going to make the situation any better.

Okay. Yeah, that's, I mean, that, I mean, so we're like a couple weeks into this now, and that is, I have felt myself being like, dude, I don't know what to say. Like, nothing I can physically say is going to make the situation any better.

Yeah. Your presence will. It gives me a lot of, I don't want to say permission, but it gives me relief that just keeping our friendship going like it's gone for the last 15 years is... will bring some sort of maybe relief or distraction, if you will. Um, something like that, that will just, you know, give them a break from all that they're going through.

Yeah. Your presence will. It gives me a lot of, I don't want to say permission, but it gives me relief that just keeping our friendship going like it's gone for the last 15 years is... will bring some sort of maybe relief or distraction, if you will. Um, something like that, that will just, you know, give them a break from all that they're going through.

Yeah. Your presence will. It gives me a lot of, I don't want to say permission, but it gives me relief that just keeping our friendship going like it's gone for the last 15 years is... will bring some sort of maybe relief or distraction, if you will. Um, something like that, that will just, you know, give them a break from all that they're going through.

Cause yeah, that's the last thing I want to do is like, they don't need to make me feel better about it. Um, I'm sad for them. I'm sad for my friend, but the last thing I need them to do is to console me. Like that's right.

Cause yeah, that's the last thing I want to do is like, they don't need to make me feel better about it. Um, I'm sad for them. I'm sad for my friend, but the last thing I need them to do is to console me. Like that's right.

Cause yeah, that's the last thing I want to do is like, they don't need to make me feel better about it. Um, I'm sad for them. I'm sad for my friend, but the last thing I need them to do is to console me. Like that's right.

Hello. Um, so I just wanted, yeah, I was calling in because I have problems with like impulsive spending.