Ashley Salazar

Maybe like

it could have helped me process then to not have to process so heavily in the future.

Like maybe it could have helped like, like future wise.

I don't know what the term would be, but I don't know that it would have helped in the moment because it's still like a heavy decision you have to make.

Yeah.

I don't know.

I really don't know.

It's hard to like think back and like you said earlier, like,

What could I have done different?

What would my life look like?

But yeah, I think the main thing would to move more slowly and not feel so rushed, regardless of like what that what what was like.

Yeah.

Who or what was responsible for that?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Well, thank you.

I think like I had support knowing that like,

financially a little bit like so I had to work and I think I was like like looking back at my episode you can see like ways that I was still acting like a child like obviously I was like oh these dirty diapers like it's just like my mom's like here you gotta clean these diapers and and I was like like you know just having attitude and things like that but um so I mean I would have done

things differently but i didn't have not the same person that i am now no we weren't children do what we were kids you know yeah i know i have to think back but um yeah like i don't think anyone really knew what to do um gosh i don't know um what would you what would you tell a birth mother who's considering adoption right now ah i thought about that earlier while we were talking and i was like oh that's tough say she's three months pregnant what would you tell her

I don't know which one to start with.