Ashley Trujillo
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One of the last things I said to her was, when you go into that courtroom, you have to pick a side to sit on. You can sit with your daughter or you can sit with your husband. And I hope that you're able to make the right choice.
One of the last things I said to her was, when you go into that courtroom, you have to pick a side to sit on. You can sit with your daughter or you can sit with your husband. And I hope that you're able to make the right choice.
One of the last things I said to her was, when you go into that courtroom, you have to pick a side to sit on. You can sit with your daughter or you can sit with your husband. And I hope that you're able to make the right choice.
She basically just started sobbing and told me everything. She had been in the car with her daughter that day and she had said something about her husband breaking a pattern of abuse because he was abused, sexually abused as a child. And she was so glad he was breaking the pattern of abuse. And that was when her daughter decided she couldn't take it anymore. And she had to tell her.
She basically just started sobbing and told me everything. She had been in the car with her daughter that day and she had said something about her husband breaking a pattern of abuse because he was abused, sexually abused as a child. And she was so glad he was breaking the pattern of abuse. And that was when her daughter decided she couldn't take it anymore. And she had to tell her.
She basically just started sobbing and told me everything. She had been in the car with her daughter that day and she had said something about her husband breaking a pattern of abuse because he was abused, sexually abused as a child. And she was so glad he was breaking the pattern of abuse. And that was when her daughter decided she couldn't take it anymore. And she had to tell her.
Sarah's daughter shared that her stepfather had sexually abused her. It started in 2016 for her, so she was 11 years old.
Sarah's daughter shared that her stepfather had sexually abused her. It started in 2016 for her, so she was 11 years old.
Sarah's daughter shared that her stepfather had sexually abused her. It started in 2016 for her, so she was 11 years old.
Yes, I did this. Yes, I did that. She had already packed a bag for him and told him that he needed to go and stay with his mother, which was in a house about half hour from them. And that he had a week's worth of clothes and she would talk to him later. So he didn't argue. He left immediately. And then the daughter wanted to go and report it to the police.
Yes, I did this. Yes, I did that. She had already packed a bag for him and told him that he needed to go and stay with his mother, which was in a house about half hour from them. And that he had a week's worth of clothes and she would talk to him later. So he didn't argue. He left immediately. And then the daughter wanted to go and report it to the police.
Yes, I did this. Yes, I did that. She had already packed a bag for him and told him that he needed to go and stay with his mother, which was in a house about half hour from them. And that he had a week's worth of clothes and she would talk to him later. So he didn't argue. He left immediately. And then the daughter wanted to go and report it to the police.
She would ask me, you know, what do I do? And I basically told her, well, you kind of have to pretend in your mind like he's dead. You need to grieve it like a loss because the person you knew and the relationship you had and the future that you were planning is gone. We talked about that a lot. How do I do that? And I said, I can't tell you how to do that. I don't know how to do that.
She would ask me, you know, what do I do? And I basically told her, well, you kind of have to pretend in your mind like he's dead. You need to grieve it like a loss because the person you knew and the relationship you had and the future that you were planning is gone. We talked about that a lot. How do I do that? And I said, I can't tell you how to do that. I don't know how to do that.
She would ask me, you know, what do I do? And I basically told her, well, you kind of have to pretend in your mind like he's dead. You need to grieve it like a loss because the person you knew and the relationship you had and the future that you were planning is gone. We talked about that a lot. How do I do that? And I said, I can't tell you how to do that. I don't know how to do that.
That's something you're going to have to figure out. But that's what I think that you should do at this point. That message wasn't getting through to Sarah. My friend was and is very attached to him and very much in love with him.
That's something you're going to have to figure out. But that's what I think that you should do at this point. That message wasn't getting through to Sarah. My friend was and is very attached to him and very much in love with him.
That's something you're going to have to figure out. But that's what I think that you should do at this point. That message wasn't getting through to Sarah. My friend was and is very attached to him and very much in love with him.
I texted Sarah and I said, listen, if this is the route that you're going to go down, I can't be a part of this. I can't understand how you could do this. And if you want to explain it to me, I'm willing to listen, but I can't support this. And she said, I don't need to explain my feelings to anybody. I am doing what I'm doing and it's not my responsibility to make sure that you understand.
I texted Sarah and I said, listen, if this is the route that you're going to go down, I can't be a part of this. I can't understand how you could do this. And if you want to explain it to me, I'm willing to listen, but I can't support this. And she said, I don't need to explain my feelings to anybody. I am doing what I'm doing and it's not my responsibility to make sure that you understand.