Ashley

So it was a lot for me to untangle.

he really didn't have anything to untangle.

So that was kind of the...

It was probably right at the last step where we both knew we wanted to be together.

We were both very much in love with each other, but it was, he really expected everything from me while offering like nothing in return.

And that like big life change, it was kind of just like,

It was like, I don't think I can like give up like my lifestyle to like go live where you live.

Cause we live in like two different kinds of climates and he lives in like a great part of the country.

I live in like, not that where I live isn't great.

It's not the same, right?

It's not, it's not what he's used to.

He's used to snowboarding, surfing, being outside all the time where I live.

It's not really like that.

It wasn't that I couldn't move.

It was just like I needed some time to untangle my life here.

My career was where I live.

I was going into the office every day.

I had to sell my house.

I had to... You didn't have to sell your house.

There was a lot of moving parts for me, right?