Ashley

Hi, Dr. John.

Hi, Dr. John.

Oh, got a lot going on.

Oh, got a lot going on.

Oh, got a lot going on.

Okay, so first off, I just want to say I'm really nervous, but I love your show, and I've actually just finished your book, Building a Non-Anxious Life, and I just want to say thank you. That really put some things into perspective for me.

Okay, so first off, I just want to say I'm really nervous, but I love your show, and I've actually just finished your book, Building a Non-Anxious Life, and I just want to say thank you. That really put some things into perspective for me.

Okay, so first off, I just want to say I'm really nervous, but I love your show, and I've actually just finished your book, Building a Non-Anxious Life, and I just want to say thank you. That really put some things into perspective for me.

No, I'm not really a sports kind of gal, to be honest.

No, I'm not really a sports kind of gal, to be honest.

No, I'm not really a sports kind of gal, to be honest.

Okay. So I'm going to try to say this as clearly and concisely as possible because I know there's a lot to get into. So my question is, is how do I move forward after discovering my husband's porn addiction and debt that he was hiding? from me related to that. So at the end of January this year, it's about five weeks ago, my husband confessed to me out of the blue.

Okay. So I'm going to try to say this as clearly and concisely as possible because I know there's a lot to get into. So my question is, is how do I move forward after discovering my husband's porn addiction and debt that he was hiding? from me related to that. So at the end of January this year, it's about five weeks ago, my husband confessed to me out of the blue.

Okay. So I'm going to try to say this as clearly and concisely as possible because I know there's a lot to get into. So my question is, is how do I move forward after discovering my husband's porn addiction and debt that he was hiding? from me related to that. So at the end of January this year, it's about five weeks ago, my husband confessed to me out of the blue.

I had no idea that anything was going on. I had no suspicions. I had no concerns. I will say we are people of faith. And in the last year, we've been getting more involved in our church, volunteering and just kind of going on a deeper level with that than just kind of the shallow base of just going to Sunday and then doing whatever we want to the rest of the week.

I had no idea that anything was going on. I had no suspicions. I had no concerns. I will say we are people of faith. And in the last year, we've been getting more involved in our church, volunteering and just kind of going on a deeper level with that than just kind of the shallow base of just going to Sunday and then doing whatever we want to the rest of the week.

I had no idea that anything was going on. I had no suspicions. I had no concerns. I will say we are people of faith. And in the last year, we've been getting more involved in our church, volunteering and just kind of going on a deeper level with that than just kind of the shallow base of just going to Sunday and then doing whatever we want to the rest of the week.

And so I thought we had come to a really good place. And then he confessed this, that he... felt like he wasn't going to be able to rid himself of this until he came to me with it. And he confessed that he had been struggling with porn his whole life and that he actually has about $5,000 of credit card debt that he racked up on OnlyFans. And so we got into all of that and...

And so I thought we had come to a really good place. And then he confessed this, that he... felt like he wasn't going to be able to rid himself of this until he came to me with it. And he confessed that he had been struggling with porn his whole life and that he actually has about $5,000 of credit card debt that he racked up on OnlyFans. And so we got into all of that and...

And so I thought we had come to a really good place. And then he confessed this, that he... felt like he wasn't going to be able to rid himself of this until he came to me with it. And he confessed that he had been struggling with porn his whole life and that he actually has about $5,000 of credit card debt that he racked up on OnlyFans. And so we got into all of that and...