Aubrey Marcus

And if so, what does that mean?

And that's been a fucking cool process.

For real.

And it's also a bet on the future, right?

Because I'm going to have a baby girl.

I'll do anything to protect that baby girl.

Yeah, that's incredibly important wisdom.

And also, when you look at somebody and their patterns and pathologies and you see the mind behaving in certain ways...

you have to recognize that this is a symptom of an underdeveloped heart capacity, right?

And so if you're reactive in a certain way, and that's something that's been really beautiful that I've witnessed in myself is as I prepared to be a father, it's put a shot clock on this transformation.

And it's like, if Vailana comes emotionally, I used to get reactive, right?

Like, you're going to come point some knives at me?

Like, watch me shinobi this shit.

You know, I'm a hibachi chef.

Like, let's fucking, let's dance.

And now it's a whole other thing.

And it's calm.

And it's just loving and straight still.

Like, with a straight, steady line, it's not becoming a doormat.

So it's like the right boundary.