Aubrey O'Day

And by the way, I want to jump in with you there. When I first started this process, when Homeland Security came to me, I knew more... Potentially knew more alleged male victims than women and still potentially, you know, alleged victims. I know more men than women. It's so much harder.

And by the way, I want to jump in with you there. When I first started this process, when Homeland Security came to me, I knew more... Potentially knew more alleged male victims than women and still potentially, you know, alleged victims. I know more men than women. It's so much harder.

And by the way, I want to jump in with you there. When I first started this process, when Homeland Security came to me, I knew more... Potentially knew more alleged male victims than women and still potentially, you know, alleged victims. I know more men than women. It's so much harder.

And when I when I hear them discuss how what they fear and coming forward, it's a completely different set of things than women do. But we know that what females face, which is what we're seeing right now is. which is a bunch of people calling you names and making fun of the things that you would do in private sexual behavior with your partner.

And when I when I hear them discuss how what they fear and coming forward, it's a completely different set of things than women do. But we know that what females face, which is what we're seeing right now is. which is a bunch of people calling you names and making fun of the things that you would do in private sexual behavior with your partner.

And when I when I hear them discuss how what they fear and coming forward, it's a completely different set of things than women do. But we know that what females face, which is what we're seeing right now is. which is a bunch of people calling you names and making fun of the things that you would do in private sexual behavior with your partner.

And you can only imagine how much more complex it goes on the other side and all of the stigmas that are associated there. But I find that men even have a harder time Women have come out, and so it is a little bit more of a conversation.

And you can only imagine how much more complex it goes on the other side and all of the stigmas that are associated there. But I find that men even have a harder time Women have come out, and so it is a little bit more of a conversation.

And you can only imagine how much more complex it goes on the other side and all of the stigmas that are associated there. But I find that men even have a harder time Women have come out, and so it is a little bit more of a conversation.

But you do know instantly when you come out, likely the first thing you will experience is being slut-shamed and not believed if you're with somebody of a higher status, more power, or more of a fan base or a liking.

But you do know instantly when you come out, likely the first thing you will experience is being slut-shamed and not believed if you're with somebody of a higher status, more power, or more of a fan base or a liking.

But you do know instantly when you come out, likely the first thing you will experience is being slut-shamed and not believed if you're with somebody of a higher status, more power, or more of a fan base or a liking.

And let me stop with you on that right there. I was in an abusive relationship. I tried to tell people on a larger level. And the response from both the person that was involved in it and the people around was, if it was so bad, then why did you stay? That to me was always something that would make my blood boil.

And let me stop with you on that right there. I was in an abusive relationship. I tried to tell people on a larger level. And the response from both the person that was involved in it and the people around was, if it was so bad, then why did you stay? That to me was always something that would make my blood boil.

And let me stop with you on that right there. I was in an abusive relationship. I tried to tell people on a larger level. And the response from both the person that was involved in it and the people around was, if it was so bad, then why did you stay? That to me was always something that would make my blood boil.

And I would try to keep the more almost that you try to explain that the more they sit back and think that you're full of it. It was so difficult for me to explain. Nowadays, when I hear somebody say that it's an instant trigger for me to be like, oh, you're definitely abusive. And she's definitely been abused. That line alone for me is a tell. Now, maybe it's not always a tell.

And I would try to keep the more almost that you try to explain that the more they sit back and think that you're full of it. It was so difficult for me to explain. Nowadays, when I hear somebody say that it's an instant trigger for me to be like, oh, you're definitely abusive. And she's definitely been abused. That line alone for me is a tell. Now, maybe it's not always a tell.

And I would try to keep the more almost that you try to explain that the more they sit back and think that you're full of it. It was so difficult for me to explain. Nowadays, when I hear somebody say that it's an instant trigger for me to be like, oh, you're definitely abusive. And she's definitely been abused. That line alone for me is a tell. Now, maybe it's not always a tell.

But for me, it's a pretty big tell. And I hate that we're getting caught up in that place because there's tons of different reasons. Please talk to me about what they are and let our audience know what they are. There's no general trait of any one victim. I'm so different than other victims that I know how I grew up.

But for me, it's a pretty big tell. And I hate that we're getting caught up in that place because there's tons of different reasons. Please talk to me about what they are and let our audience know what they are. There's no general trait of any one victim. I'm so different than other victims that I know how I grew up.