Azar Faraday

We're not going to the altar with all our friends and family, and now we're suddenly committed.

The commitment should already exist, and we're doing this because we've decided this is good for our relationship moving forward.

But people look to the marriage to be like, this is going to solve something.

This is going to make us better somehow.

exactly just like people think a baby's gonna oh bring us closer baby it's hard for people who are actually in love for sure if you have issues and you bring a baby into it it's gonna make it even worse that's gonna recipe yeah exactly like no nothing is gonna save your marriage but actually doing the work doing the work or your relationship yeah yeah compromising all that good stuff do you believe in like going to therapy and stuff

Yeah.

Okay.

Oh, it's to uncouple.

Huh?

It was a therapy to uncouple.

Because that's the thing where they do therapy to, like, uncouple.

They get defensive.

I've been in that position and I was in couples therapy and I felt the way of like, I can't see you in a certain light anymore, but it's like, I want to be with you.

So I want to figure out how I can not be so guarded with you now because I don't trust you.

And I feel like you're a different person in my eyes now.

And I say all that to say, not for someone to walk out, but to be like, okay, so like you said, where can we get to the root of that and fix that?

that issue.

You know what I mean?

And sometimes it can be fixed.

Sometimes, I don't know if it can.