Bailey

But now that it's time to make holiday plans, he told me that he doesn't want to travel during the holidays anymore. And he now runs his own business, so he could work around it. But it feels like he prioritizes his time and his preferences without much consideration for mine. And when we went to visit my family earlier this year for the first time, he gave me about four days of his schedule.

But now that it's time to make holiday plans, he told me that he doesn't want to travel during the holidays anymore. And he now runs his own business, so he could work around it. But it feels like he prioritizes his time and his preferences without much consideration for mine. And when we went to visit my family earlier this year for the first time, he gave me about four days of his schedule.

But now that it's time to make holiday plans, he told me that he doesn't want to travel during the holidays anymore. And he now runs his own business, so he could work around it. But it feels like he prioritizes his time and his preferences without much consideration for mine. And when we went to visit my family earlier this year for the first time, he gave me about four days of his schedule.

And now he says we just saw my family. And so it feels like I'm being gaslighted into thinking I'm selfish for wanting to spend Christmas with my family this year. So... I guess I'm really struggling with whether I'm being reasonable for asking to spend this holiday with my family or if I'm being made to feel like my needs don't matter.

And now he says we just saw my family. And so it feels like I'm being gaslighted into thinking I'm selfish for wanting to spend Christmas with my family this year. So... I guess I'm really struggling with whether I'm being reasonable for asking to spend this holiday with my family or if I'm being made to feel like my needs don't matter.

And now he says we just saw my family. And so it feels like I'm being gaslighted into thinking I'm selfish for wanting to spend Christmas with my family this year. So... I guess I'm really struggling with whether I'm being reasonable for asking to spend this holiday with my family or if I'm being made to feel like my needs don't matter.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I completely agree with you. And I guess that was one of the wants that I was like, let's not wait to have this conversation on our first date. I told him I want to get married. I want to have kids. These are my goals. I come from this messy family, but this is still something that is my biggest need. And he agreed, but that turns out he feels like the government shouldn't be involved in marriage.

I completely agree with you. And I guess that was one of the wants that I was like, let's not wait to have this conversation on our first date. I told him I want to get married. I want to have kids. These are my goals. I come from this messy family, but this is still something that is my biggest need. And he agreed, but that turns out he feels like the government shouldn't be involved in marriage.

I completely agree with you. And I guess that was one of the wants that I was like, let's not wait to have this conversation on our first date. I told him I want to get married. I want to have kids. These are my goals. I come from this messy family, but this is still something that is my biggest need. And he agreed, but that turns out he feels like the government shouldn't be involved in marriage.

Okay. That's what he says.

Okay. That's what he says.

Okay. That's what he says.

I think it's fair. I also have a really bad memory. So I think the gaslighting thing came from where, because we didn't go home for New Year's or Christmas, we were planning on doing New Year's, but things were complicated with his work. So we did. And so he said, we'll go back next year. And so now it's that. And it was, him telling me I'm going to marry you.

I think it's fair. I also have a really bad memory. So I think the gaslighting thing came from where, because we didn't go home for New Year's or Christmas, we were planning on doing New Year's, but things were complicated with his work. So we did. And so he said, we'll go back next year. And so now it's that. And it was, him telling me I'm going to marry you.

I think it's fair. I also have a really bad memory. So I think the gaslighting thing came from where, because we didn't go home for New Year's or Christmas, we were planning on doing New Year's, but things were complicated with his work. So we did. And so he said, we'll go back next year. And so now it's that. And it was, him telling me I'm going to marry you.

And now it's like, I want the government out. So, okay.

And now it's like, I want the government out. So, okay.