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Bar Fridman-Tell

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
139 total appearances

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

And I really love the freedom that it allows us and how it opens up so many doors to

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

that we are tired of opening, usually.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

I think it was very important for me to walk the line between human and not human.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

But for her to be human enough for her to explore power dynamics and relationships that everyone goes through, because while Anisak will take it to the extreme, there are

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

how much the power dynamic is skewed to one side, how one side is actually responsible literally for someone else's life.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

I think every relationship has its own type of power imbalance.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

It's never 50-50.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

It's not ever perfect, not consistently, not in the long run.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

And

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

I really wanted to explore that, what happened there and what happens when you take it to the extreme.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

And because of that, it was very important for Day to be human or as human as possible in the way the interaction affect her, in the feelings it creates, even if her starting point is very different.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

Yes.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

And I think much of what the book deals with is the question of like where the line of consent goes.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

How much can you stretch it before you're on the wrong side?

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

And how delicate it is sometimes.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

Because Rory is aware that in theory, she is supposed not to be able to say no.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

But he still manages to convince himself that it doesn't apply.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

At first, because his sister is the creator.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

So she can say no to his sister, not to him.

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Bar Fridman-Tell on her novel 'Honeysuckle'

And later, because she's his best friend.