Barry

And then can we build up our resilience muscles so that we can like the golden gate bridge kind of deal with those strong winds that come in and it's not going to, you know, lock us down too much.

That was that.

So I hope you can help me understand that a little bit better.

Well, it sort of does with the idea, though, for me, what I wonder about is the micro trauma or continuous trauma, the chronic trauma.

you kind of keep getting those neurochemical reactions like all the time, as opposed to acute trauma, you get a, you know, a blast, but then, you know, it, it ultimately sort of like withstand with the loss of Murphy, with the loss of writer over time, it kind of resets a little bit.

Whereas it's that, it's that kind of thing.

Yeah.

Barry last thoughts.

I'm just going to end by Tom.

Thank you so very much.

I, I kind of,

put out there what I wanted to, you know, talk about.

And it was a great discussion.

And I am in process of getting your book because I do want to read it.

Thanks again.

Yeah, actually, I would be raising my hand.

I wanted to do one more thing, something that

And I know an N of one is not good research.

But it seems to me that I know that three of the last four dogs I had, my first one lived to 15 years.

And then the next three all died around 10.