Bec Syed

So it's like not a big deal.

It's like it's not hard at all.

It's like, no, if you work hard, then you're working hard and that's just how it is.

So if you have money to – you don't need, you know, handouts for like petrol and things like that because you've worked hard for it, then I just – I want to give you full credit there.

But on the flip side of that, you have to like take things into consideration like maybe like –

the gender of the person or the mental health of the person.

Like let's say, you know, those days where you just wake up and you're like so sad for no reason.

Imagine that was your life every single day.

So mental health really is like, just like this invisible thing.

I'm not saying that's what your sibling is struggling with, but I just think all our brains are wired so differently.

And some of us just, we really cling to things like type A, type B, but then when it comes down to it and it comes down to like, well, type B people who also have this and this and this probably need more help.

We're like, no, no,

That's unfair.

It's like when it suits what we're talking about or it suits like a TikTok trend, then it's like amazing.

When it comes down to like looking at someone's life and being like, oh, you probably need more help because the system is set up for people who are this way and you are not this way.

Then we're like, no, no, that's unfair.

Well, then if they're getting help, we should all get help.

Anyway, all that to say.

If your sibling has needed help for petrol, for food, for basic needs that in an ideal world, they would all be free.

We would just get our basic needs met.